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Old 20-06-2018, 12:19 PM   #9
hande
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Originally Posted by Dude111 View Post
Seems suspicious like they want you to stay away for some reason.......


Anyway otherwards to contact him??
Not really

1) Our OP is mistaken
2) Our OP is correct but his brother is completely unaware of this story and disbelieves the op


If someone claimed they were a person I had no idea existed and continued to try to make contact after I gad stated no dont believe you please leave me alone - I may be concerned that- the fixation isn't healthy and may if I keep rejecting him /her result in an escalation against my family.
In those circumstances I may seek to use the law to keep them away.


The OP may be perfectly polite and charming and not be doing anything incorrect behaviour wise. But I can see how it could concern the other party and even innocent actions can appear dark if the motive is miss understood.



My advice to the OP write a letter - leave it at that - If he accepts it and contacts all good.

If he doesn't - well assuming you are correct and it is your long lost brother - he has never been in your life - dont risk your health and well being trying to forge a relationship at such a late stage
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