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5 hours ago, Jack said:

its a bit like spiritual sex, massage etc

 

5 hours ago, Captain Falcon said:

 

I think it's Tantric sex, some hippy bullshit, Sting seems to be an expert.

That's all I'd heard about tantric sex and Sting. Then I read this book. What an eye opener that was!

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On 8/26/2020 at 6:38 PM, Captain Falcon said:

Dating sites/apps just seem like a revolving door for sex athletes. "Lynn these are sex people!"

They might not have necessarily started out that way, but they seem to have gone more towards the way of hookup culture these days. Serial dating for days out and meals etc. is a thing. It's a good job I'm poor! Try being a doley and a man on a dating site, I've done that in the past, it was soul destroying stuff. I started to become very bitter for a time, but thankfully I've made peace with the realities of "love and romance". It is what it is, nowt I can do about it.

 

 

 

The girl in the video is cute, I wonder if she is from Bulgaria. A lady I used to know who coincidentally is married to a guy who is "asleep", she would complain about it all the time, but she is Bulgarian and her voice and accent sound very similar to this girl.

 

The guy in the video, he's not a bad looking fellow but he might look a little better if he did something with his hair.

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10 hours ago, allymisfit said:

 

Damn girl! If I was a bloke, I'd be sold 😁

She has a boyfriend, so her post doesn't count in this thread. :classic_tongue:

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15 minutes ago, Messenger said:

She has a boyfriend, so her post doesn't count in this thread. :classic_tongue:

🤣 That is true!

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3 hours ago, Captain Falcon said:

 

Translation; how much money do you make? 🤨

 

That's the exact point dating ends for me, and it's one of if not the first questions.

 

Only the bad boys, the ex convicts, the criminals get away with not having a good job.

 

I saw a woman a couple of years ago that I hadn't seen for a few years, the first thing she said to me was not "how are you"? I haven't seen you for a long time" etc. it was "are you working"?

I gave her a flat, cold, slightly angry "NO". And that was the end of that. I caught her glancing my way a couple of times during that night, but I looked away and drank a couple more beers and then went home.

 

Like I said, I'm undateable. 

Captain Falcon, you need to find your mojo again, your confidence. Do something that you love and you will feel better again.

 

Instead of telling your ex that you were not working, you should have been cocky with her. Tell her yeah I started a film production company and if you play your cards right I'll consider you for some work. Done, end of conversation take a sip of beer and put her on ignore. Watch how fast she will want to talk to you and want to know more. If she doesn't right then and there she will go home wondering if what you told her is true and she will be thinking about you which gives you energy.

 

Whatever it is that makes you happy, do it! Cars, motorcycles, painting, drawing, gardening, fashion, woodworking, blacksmith, blowing glass, photography, real estate, whatever, get back into it, really throw yourself into it and forget about getting a girlfriend. They come around when you are NOT focused on them, it's weird. When you are so totally focused on your work and happy, that's when you will happen to meet a girl who has similar interests as you. A girl doesn't want to be around a unhappy angry depressed person and if you are constantly giving off that energy they will pick up on it.

 

Dating life is not over simply because you are in your 40's. Be creative to get some money coming in, sell some shit on ebay or a local classified website such as craigslist or nextdoor dot com. I have faith in you.

 

 

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@Messenger

 

She wasn't my ex, just a family acquaintance. I don't think I wanted her to be interested in me as I found her conversation opener detestable. It's like she was weighing up whether or not to bother with me based on my employment status/income bracket. I wouldn't have lied to her, I don't see the point of lying, I've lied in the past, nothing serious, but lies eventually rise to the surface and then pop like a zit oozing everywhere and then you have a mess to clean up, usually with more lies!.

 

Money just doesn't seem to be a big drive in my life. Maybe there is simply just something wrong with me.

 

That's kind of you to say you have faith in me. 

 

I need my mojo back, or some of it back at the least. I used to like photography, I was trying to learn that in the past few years but I've lost the passion for it these past few months.I wasn't particularly great at it anyway but I enjoyed "the mission" and being outdoors. I've still got some decent cameras in the bottom of my cupboard.

 

I'll find my way back, but I need to put the work in.

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On 9/16/2020 at 2:26 PM, Captain Falcon said:

@Messenger

 

She wasn't my ex, just a family acquaintance. I don't think I wanted her to be interested in me as I found her conversation opener detestable. It's like she was weighing up whether or not to bother with me based on my employment status/income bracket. I wouldn't have lied to her, I don't see the point of lying, I've lied in the past, nothing serious, but lies eventually rise to the surface and then pop like a zit oozing everywhere and then you have a mess to clean up, usually with more lies!.

 

Money just doesn't seem to be a big drive in my life. Maybe there is simply just something wrong with me.

 

That's kind of you to say you have faith in me. 

 

I need my mojo back, or some of it back at the least. I used to like photography, I was trying to learn that in the past few years but I've lost the passion for it these past few months.I wasn't particularly great at it anyway but I enjoyed "the mission" and being outdoors. I've still got some decent cameras in the bottom of my cupboard.

 

I'll find my way back, but I need to put the work in.

Ah ok I must have missed that and thought that she was an ex. Either way, all I'm saying is to not let women have the one up on you simply because they have a vagina or are making money in the matrix. I'm not a good liar either, I do not enjoy it and I believe that it does create more problems, I'm just saying to forget about women and focus on yourself.

 

There's nothing wrong with you Falcon, a lot of people are going through a difficult time right now because of a dark force acting against us. That's why I say to do what makes you happy, at least try to have fun while you are here. My two cents anyway. 🙂

 

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On 9/15/2020 at 11:29 PM, Messenger said:

Yeah he seems bitter about something.

Not at all Messenger. She was 'over the moon' when I told her I had posted a pic of her online. She has had many requests for a date since which absolves me of some guilt since I was instrumental in our break up. She met a nice , jolly fellow with a flat cap who works as a scientist at Oxford University, so all's well that ends well. 

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1 hour ago, Smokestack Lightnin' said:

Not at all Messenger. She was 'over the moon' when I told her I had posted a pic of her online. She has had many requests for a date since which absolves me of some guilt since I was instrumental in our break up. She met a nice , jolly fellow with a flat cap who works as a scientist at Oxford University, so all's well that ends well. 

I'm happy to hear that everything worked out for the better, Smokestack. 🙂

 

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oh my sweet jesus in the high.

I just found this thread,Omg you mo fos have got 6 pages of this wailing.

The online dating site for awake people was called awake dating.

It was dire.

I,ll date anyone with a Maserati,a plane outa here ,or a bong.

Answers on a postcard to planet fecking agenda feck feck covid feck 19.

 

 

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My advice?


Dont bother with women.

Save your mana, use it to seminate your own brain.

 

There is an alchemical process in built in us, the Gnostics knew this and wrote about it, this is why noFap has been reported to have majorly beneficial effects.

If you refrain from desire and spilling your seed the energy transmutes and activates higher states of being.

 

 

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On 8/19/2020 at 5:32 AM, Trustinfinite said:

That would but fun, I’m more of a holographic girl lol 

Bugger ,so you don't really exist😉

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I don't know about all these dating sites these days ,in my day if you liked someone you went up and spoke to them if you made a good impression they would go out with you , as your friendship grew you would do the usual like wining and dining ,but you also would have to organize little out of the ordinary romantic treats to keep her interested , things like taking her rat shooting at the local tip, two weeks ago was our 35 wedding anniversary ,so I bought here a wipper snipper. Romance is alive and well in Australia.

You lot think I'm joking ,don't you

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On 9/18/2020 at 9:54 PM, Lady Baynham said:

oh my sweet jesus in the high.

I just found this thread,Omg you mo fos have got 6 pages of this wailing.

The online dating site for awake people was called awake dating.

It was dire.

I,ll date anyone with a Maserati,a plane outa here ,or a bong.

Answers on a postcard to planet fecking agenda feck feck covid feck 19.

 

 

 

Your dream date awaits---

 

 

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On 9/15/2020 at 11:29 PM, Messenger said:

Yeah he seems bitter about something.

 

I just learned that split from her guy she was seeing 'messenger'. Would you like me to put in a good word for you? 

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4 hours ago, Smokestack Lightnin' said:

 

I just learned that split from her guy she was seeing 'messenger'. Would you like me to put in a good word for you? 

Thank you for thinking of me Smokestack but I don't believe that she is my type, and I'm in the states. I hope she is well and I wish her the best.

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Just now, Messenger said:

Thank you for thinking of me Smokestack but I don't believe that she is my type, and I'm in the states. I hope she is well and I wish her the best.

 

It was actually a joke. She was a face on a FB profile from years ago. I wish I didn't have such a fantastic sense of humour !

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2 hours ago, Smokestack Lightnin' said:

 

It was actually a joke. She was a face on a FB profile from years ago. I wish I didn't have such a fantastic sense of humour !

I wouldn't exactly call it fantastic but to each his own. :classic_smile:

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