RobinJ Posted June 2, 2023 Share Posted June 2, 2023 2 hours ago, BornFreeNowAgain said: I agree @RobinJ, the other things that are often overlooked is that you must also remove all the blocks that are limiting your manifesting. For most, these are old belief systems or blocked energy caused by trauma. Without doing that, people often start to believe that manifesting DOESN'T work, when you have not released the things blocking it. I like Jason Breshears idea of manifesting (although I don't think he puts it in these terms), which is loosely paraphrased as "your reality becomes who you are', meaning your external life, reflects your internal state. Through my life and particularly the past 10 years or so when I have been actively 'manifesting', I have seen times when I am reaching a ceiling of my beliefs, in that I can feel when I have reached a new ceiling that I need to push through to manifest the next level. Most often these ceilings are belief systems which I need to overcome to reach the next level/target. Absolutely. It comes from the heart vibration and being free of emotional baggage can be a key element. So many folks hang on to pain and wear it like a badge, then wonder why they get sick! Its really fascinating to not only get to understand this stuff but find like minded people who dont just laugh in your face. One of the things I live about this situation right now is exploring all this stuff together and joining together to understand what we are really capable of. Thankfully, I have a thick skin so non of that garbage with labels and name calling effects me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr H Posted November 2, 2023 Share Posted November 2, 2023 I was listening today about how dopamine works and from my understanding it might explain why holding the image in your mind creates the manifestation... When a desire arises your dopamine levels increase. Then once it is recognised by the conscious mind, they go lower than baseline. You then take action to try and get the dopamine levels back to normal or above. So from a practical sense, if you can get yourself to consistently think about your goal, it will lead to more action, making the outcome more likely. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobinJ Posted November 2, 2023 Share Posted November 2, 2023 Just now, Mr H said: I was listening today about how dopamine works and from my understanding it might explain why holding the image in your mind creates the manifestation... When a desire arises your dopamine levels increase. Then once it is recognised by the conscious mind, they go lower than baseline. You then take action to try and get the dopamine levels back to normal or above. So from a practical sense, if you can get yourself to consistently think about your goal, it will lead to more action, making the outcome more likely. The Heart Math Institute, Joe Dispenza and many others have done lots of scientific research on this. I also learned it via a different name with NLP techniques. Really its very simple. Everything we are or do comes from the emotional vibration that we send out. We simply need to visualise exactly what we want like it has already happened and we are living it. Add the emotions, the smells, noises, feel them, live it in your mind. You can also draw it and write it down in detail. Repeat the concept as a habit at least once a day. Focus only on that for a few minutes. If you are able to do this while in a meditative state, all the better. You can also use binaural beats for that part. Nowadays I use music with certain frequencies to focus my mind (and train it to shut up and pay attention!) Learning control over the brain is key to all higher self stuff. The brain is really just the antenna, the heart is the creator. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legion Posted November 2, 2023 Share Posted November 2, 2023 I watched an interesting interview by James Corbett. An author by the name of Jo Plummer. He sells hard copies of his books but also gives them away for free as PDF downloads on his website. I began reading his latest book - "Pick Your Pieces" It's fascinating. I am going to continue and finish it. It's about his journey and accumulated wisdom, getting himself into a good place, which is far far away from where he began. He literally manifested his new reality by consciously rewiring his brain. https://www.joeplummer.com/pick-your-pieces https://www.mediafire.com/folder/gvg922tn9rcem/Joseph_Plummer_-_PDFs https://www.bitchute.com/video/ae1GtvE4chze/ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr H Posted November 2, 2023 Share Posted November 2, 2023 1 hour ago, RobinJ said: The Heart Math Institute, Joe Dispenza and many others have done lots of scientific research on this. I also learned it via a different name with NLP techniques. Really its very simple. Everything we are or do comes from the emotional vibration that we send out. We simply need to visualise exactly what we want like it has already happened and we are living it. Add the emotions, the smells, noises, feel them, live it in your mind. You can also draw it and write it down in detail. Repeat the concept as a habit at least once a day. Focus only on that for a few minutes. If you are able to do this while in a meditative state, all the better. You can also use binaural beats for that part. Nowadays I use music with certain frequencies to focus my mind (and train it to shut up and pay attention!) Learning control over the brain is key to all higher self stuff. The brain is really just the antenna, the heart is the creator. Thank you Robin. I have a question about the emotions side you mention. One of my friends is a healer and life coach mainly for rich business men, some who are billionaires. I asked him once, what is it that drives rich people to achieve riches? He said the common thread was usually fear, and fear of losing and lack. This is in contradistinction to abundance - the emotion I imagine would create abundance. How do you reconcile this? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobinJ Posted November 2, 2023 Share Posted November 2, 2023 1 hour ago, Mr H said: Thank you Robin. I have a question about the emotions side you mention. One of my friends is a healer and life coach mainly for rich business men, some who are billionaires. I asked him once, what is it that drives rich people to achieve riches? He said the common thread was usually fear, and fear of losing and lack. This is in contradistinction to abundance - the emotion I imagine would create abundance. How do you reconcile this? Well I would say that's probably more of a goal orientated person rather than manifestation per se. The better question would be; now that they have all those toys and riches are they happy? Or will they go forward with that constant need for betterment? I suspect we can manifest from any emotion, which is maybe why there is so much darkness, but, its a difficult road usually. Manifesting from love is way easier. Psychics would say that those types of people are "young souls" Those who are here for the first time and just "want it all" like a kid in a sweet store. Old souls are on a progression path of higher consciousness. I saw a lady chaneller the other day who said every soul will experience every type of existence over many lifetimes. That made me think for sure, it makes sense though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr H Posted November 2, 2023 Share Posted November 2, 2023 2 hours ago, RobinJ said: Well I would say that's probably more of a goal orientated person rather than manifestation per se. The better question would be; now that they have all those toys and riches are they happy? Or will they go forward with that constant need for betterment? I suspect we can manifest from any emotion, which is maybe why there is so much darkness, but, its a difficult road usually. Manifesting from love is way easier. Psychics would say that those types of people are "young souls" Those who are here for the first time and just "want it all" like a kid in a sweet store. Old souls are on a progression path of higher consciousness. I saw a lady chaneller the other day who said every soul will experience every type of existence over many lifetimes. That made me think for sure, it makes sense though. Thanks that makes sense. I think the fact they were seeking therapy and healing suggests they most likely not so happy. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsnotallrightjack Posted December 6, 2023 Share Posted December 6, 2023 On 4/28/2023 at 10:00 PM, DaleP said: Reality Transurfing Book summary https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eRDUsUONNaM Many people are commenting that this book has changed their lives. "Worth listening to / reading multiple times if you have the commitment to creating what you want." If you are interested in studying here is an audiobook. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a-oRzoISu3o&list=PLYH6_jr6FYpAxhAZ_jTVwMVvvXvu734pZ "You don't get what you want, you get what you are." “All truths are half truths, and wisdom is really just knowing the difference. And wisdom is acquired when you combine knowledge plus experience.” Forward 00:00:02 Chapter I. THE ALTERNATIVES MODEL 00:04:1867 - The Rustle of the Morning Stars 00:04:25 - The Guardian’s Riddle 00:19:18 - Summary 01:10:06 Chapter II. PENDULUMS 00:00:02 - Destructive pendulums 00:00:08 - The Battle of the Pendulums 00:13:57 - Puppet Strings 00:23:07 - You get what you do not want 00:33:56 - Defeating the Pendulum 00:38:22 - Stopping a Pendulum 00:50:02 - Simple Solutions to Complex Problems 01:02:57 - The Suspended State 01:09:14 - Summary 01:12:16 Chapter III. THE WAVE OF FORTUNE 00:00:02 - Antipode to the Pendulum 00:00:10 - The Boomerang 00:06:48 - Transmission 00:14:12 - Magic Rituals 00:25:12 - Summary 00:27:40 Chapter IV. BALANCE 00:00:02 - Excess Potential 00:00:09 - Resentment and Judgement 00:14:42 - Dependent Relationships 00:25:56 - Idealization and Overvaluation 00:30:50 - Contempt and Vanity 00:43:17 - Superiority and Inferiority 00:48:21 - Love to Have, Love to Hate 00:59:04 - Guilt 01:09:35 - Money 01:25:33 - Perfection 01:33:36 - Importance 01:38:58 - From Battle to Balance 01:50:09 - Summary 02:02:34 Chapter V. THE INDUCED TRANSITION 00:00:02 - The Generation Shift 00:00:10 - The Pendulum Vortex 00:15:30 - Disaster 00:22:10 - War 00:28:58 - Unemployment 00:33:19 - Epidemic 00:36:56 - Panic 00:42:58 - Poverty 00:44:37 - Summary 00:57:58 Chapter VI. ТHE ALTERNATIVES FLOW 00:00:02 - The Information Field 00:00:13 - Knowledge Out of Nowhere 00:08:03 - The Needy, the Indignant and the Fighter 00:20:46 - Going With the Flow 00:30:48 - Guiding Signs 00:45:56 - Letting Go 01:03:45 - Summary 01:18:42 Chapter VII. INTENTION 00:00:02 - Lucid Dreaming 00:00:09 - The Dream Space 00:11:45 - The Magical Power of Intention 00:33:08 - Outer Intention 00:46:55 - The Game Script 01:17:55 - The Game According to Your Rules 01:29:19 - The Purification of Intention 01:50:28 - Summary 02:03:52 Chapter VIII. SLIDES 00:00:02 - Illusion 00:00:08 - Distorting Reality 00:07:26 - Positive slides 00:18:32 - Widening Your Comfort Zone 00:27:27 - Visualising the Goal 00:41:08 - Visualising the Process 00:50:22 - Transfer Chains 01:00:21 - Summary 01:07:14 Chapter IX. THE HEART AND MIND 00:00:02 - The Wind of Intention 00:00:11 - The Heart’s Sail 00:08:31 - The Wizard Within 00:18:19 - The Mirage 00:28:25 - Guardian Angels 00:43:12 - A Soul Box 00:49:42 - Fraile 01:02:16 - Unity of Heart and Mind 01:13:56 - Sound Bite Slides 01:36:03 - A Window onto the Alternatives Space 01:43:06 - The Frame 01:53:03 - Summary 02:03:18 Chapter X. GOALS AND DOORS 00:00:02 - How to Choose Your Own Things 00:00:09 - How to Become a Trendsetter 00:12:13 - Other People’s Goals 00:19:07 - Breaking Through Stereotypes 00:35:07 - Your Goals 00:47:57 - Your Doors 01:05:33 - Intention 01:22:18 - Realisation 01:30:01 - Inspiration 01:49:48 - Reviving the Goal 01:58:12 - Summary 02:09:28 Chapter XI. ENERGY 00:00:02 - Energy levels 00:00:11 - Stress and relaxation 00:05:58 - Energy vampires 00:13:52 - The Protective Shield 00:20:06 - Increasing Your Energy Levels 00:26:08 - The Energy of Intention 00:39:36 - The Step of Intention 00:42:18 - Illness Pendulums 00:51:03 - Summary 00:59:26 Chapter XII. FRAILING 00:00:02 - Intention in Relationships 00:00:15 - The Flow of Relationships 00:25:33 - Attuning to Fraile 00:46:00 - Energy in Relationships 00:59:30 - Pardon 01:06:39 - Job Hunting 01:10:39 - Summary 01:26:58 Chapter XIII. COORDINATION 00:00:02 - The Insecurity Labyrinth 00:00:12 - Coordinating Importance 00:12:46 - The Battle with the Clay Golem 00:30:15 - Ending the Battle 00:46:11 - Release 01:00:39 - Coordinating Intention 01:14:37 - Apples Fall to the Sky 01:32:58 - Summary 01:55:01 Chapter XIV. FORWARD TO THE PAST 00:00:02 - Transaction 00:00:10 - Shades in the Scenery 00:13:54 - Gliding 00:27:53 - Summary 00:40:05 Chapter XV. LETTERS FROM THE PAST 00:00:02 - A Run of Bad Luck 00:00:13 - The Game of Partners 00:08:44 - Charity 00:16:11 - Esoteric Knowledge 00:23:08 - How to Win Back the One You Love 00:33:29 - Intention 00:46:20 - Importance Potential 00:54:39 - Reality Inversion 01:12:55 - Summary 01:21:53 Chapter XVIII. THE MIRROR WORLD 00:00:02 - The Dual Mirror 00:00:10 - The Reality Amalgam 00:16:06 - Chasing Your Reflection 00:33:20 - The World Comes To You 00:48:40 - The Maker’s Intention 01:08:57 - The League of Mirror Makers 01:34:00 - Summary 01:56:40 Chapter XVII. THE DREAMS OF THE GODS 00:00:02 - The Two Sides to Reality 00:00:10 - The Waking Dream 00:17:16 - The Children of God 00:41:57 - The Dream Theatre 00:54:50 - Summary 01:20:21 Chapter XVIII. THE MIRROR WORLD 00:00:02 - The Dual Mirror 00:00:10 - The Reality Amalgam 00:16:06 - Chasing Your Reflection 00:33:20 - The World Comes To You 00:48:40 - The Maker’s Intention 01:08:57 - The League of Mirror Makers 01:34:00 - Summary 01:56:40 Chapter XIX. THE GATEKEEPER TO ETERNITY 00:00:02 - The Energy of Intention 00:00:11 - Correcting the Mirror 00:55:03 - The Reality Maker 01:10:15 - Coordinating the dream 01:34:28 - The Maker’s Verdict 01:43:27 - Summary 02:01:33 Afterword. A STRANGE REALITY 00:00:02 - The Intention of the Ancient Magicians 00:22:46 Reddit community https://www.reddit.com/r/ShiftYourReality/ Those videos have been removed from YouTube, but there's a Udemy course in it here: https://www.udemy.com/course/transurfing-theory-meaning-and-practice/ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaleP Posted January 9, 2024 Author Share Posted January 9, 2024 Reality Transurfing Chapter 1 - 19 Complete. For timestamps, see the video description. Download it in case it gets removed. In this playlist contains a number of supplementary study video by Brian Scott which is also useful. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K_A2S0a9a-k&list=PLDVdsZ67fl1Rv9iLSU7OGWVb15TAETvqh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr H Posted March 25, 2024 Share Posted March 25, 2024 I wonder if anyone else experience this paradox. The more desperate you are and attached you are emotionally and mentally to a result. Less likely you get it. Kinda weird. I'm guessing because coming from place of lack, or something? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atenea Posted March 28, 2024 Share Posted March 28, 2024 I read this book in 2020. It's a good tool, but it's no different to any other manifestation principle. As someone who has read quite a few about manifestation and the law of assumption, amongst other "power of the mind" currents, I'd say I have come to this conclusion: Nothing that's willfully, purposedly created with the mind, lasts. It may last for a bit, if it does, but ultimately it is the heart that creates. And that cannot be rushed, rationalised, made logic with, or cheated. It has its own time. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobinJ Posted March 29, 2024 Share Posted March 29, 2024 On 3/25/2024 at 2:34 AM, Mr H said: I wonder if anyone else experience this paradox. The more desperate you are and attached you are emotionally and mentally to a result. Less likely you get it. Kinda weird. I'm guessing because coming from place of lack, or something? Yes, its because of the way folks 'ask' for something. Things only manifest from the present tense.( from the now) So If you were to talk to yourself in this way, for example; if I get...this thing then that thing will happen; or, if you come from a negative speech or mindset it will never come to be. The field does not understand past or future, only now. This is why prayers don't often work etc. In contrast, if we start living as if the thing we want has already happened, we bring it closer. Thats the way its worked for me anyway. Also helps if it includes the benefit of others. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Certified Green of Heart Posted March 29, 2024 Share Posted March 29, 2024 16 hours ago, atenea said: I read this book in 2020. It's a good tool, but it's no different to any other manifestation principle. Book, Reality Transurfing, or TranSMURFing.. Thanks for the opinion, that it comes as standard as any manifestation principle... but that doesn't make it bad of course. What works, kinda works...? Just seen at a glance the contents by what Dale posted and just from that looking at the chapters, looks pretty canny & intuitive. Who has read the whole thing - anyone?... Or... on the other hand maybe it's best used as a tool to just dip into certain chapters most fitting to each us at the time? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaleP Posted March 29, 2024 Author Share Posted March 29, 2024 On 3/25/2024 at 8:34 AM, Mr H said: I wonder if anyone else experience this paradox. The more desperate you are and attached you are emotionally and mentally to a result. Less likely you get it. Kinda weird. I'm guessing because coming from place of lack, or something? Yes, correct. By saying 'I want .....' you are affirming the fact that you don't have it and the state of 'want.....want' continues. This is explained in one of the chapters. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaleP Posted March 29, 2024 Author Share Posted March 29, 2024 20 hours ago, atenea said: I read this book in 2020. It's a good tool, but it's no different to any other manifestation principle. As someone who has read quite a few about manifestation and the law of assumption, amongst other "power of the mind" currents, I'd say I have come to this conclusion: Nothing that's willfully, purposedly created with the mind, lasts. It may last for a bit, if it does, but ultimately it is the heart that creates. And that cannot be rushed, rationalised, made logic with, or cheated. It has its own time. It does have some useful mindset so that you don't end up sabotaging what you are trying to achieve. But what is created in the light tend not to come to fruition. Mind accessing the dark realm is where everything comes from. i.e. 5D. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atenea Posted March 31, 2024 Share Posted March 31, 2024 On 3/29/2024 at 6:31 PM, DaleP said: It does have some useful mindset so that you don't end up sabotaging what you are trying to achieve. But what is created in the light tend not to come to fruition. Mind accessing the dark realm is where everything comes from. i.e. 5D. Do plants create with Mind or with Heart? Do they create in the light or by accessing the dark with their Mind? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Certified Green of Heart Posted March 31, 2024 Share Posted March 31, 2024 33 minutes ago, atenea said: Do plants create with Mind or with Heart? Do they create in the light or by accessing the dark with their Mind? I think plants, whilst intelligence is within them, are probably more able to simplify light and dark, and what's needed when?? Dunno... Maybe too they are more pure than we are by their sort of intelligence. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaleP Posted March 31, 2024 Author Share Posted March 31, 2024 1 hour ago, atenea said: Do plants create with Mind or with Heart? Do they create in the light or by accessing the dark with their Mind? Everything has consciousness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr H Posted April 1, 2024 Share Posted April 1, 2024 (edited) On 6/1/2023 at 1:55 PM, RobinJ said: Understanding the concept of energy and attaching emotion is key to making it work. I have read many times about attaching emotions to manifest but don't quite understand. Maybe you can explain? My observations. That negative emotions are the most powerful manifestors. Do you use negative emotions? Or only positive? What happens if you attach the same emotion to two different outcomes? Which one manifests? Edited April 1, 2024 by Mr H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobinJ Posted April 1, 2024 Share Posted April 1, 2024 (edited) 8 hours ago, Mr H said: I have read many times about attaching emotions to manifest but don't quite understand. Maybe you can explain? My observations. That negative emotions are the most powerful manifestors. Do you use negative emotions? Or only positive? What happens if you attach the same emotion to two different outcomes? Which one manifests? Well I'm not sure why anyone would use negative emotion to manifest unless they are into the dark side. When you visualise what you want to happen via meditation etc you set an intention of higher good for all first. Then imagine what it looks, feels, smells sounds like to have that thing happen in the now. Attaching feelings as above is what I mean. You have be able to really live what it would be like. Heres an example. I live on the edge of a forest, there are other land owners who have access via a mountain road. The road is steep, winding and can be dangerous in the wet. So I imagined many times what it would be like to go along that road in all seasons, how happy and grateful I feel that it has been fixed. I use my hands to make the psysical driving motions, changing gear etc, i speak out loud how great it is that the road is now safe for all to use etc. I imagine in the present tense as if it has already happened. I did this many times over a few months. One month ago I met by chance a new land owner. We had a chat, turns out he was waiting for a truck to deliver some big rocks so as to start repairing the worst bit of the road! He has repaired 3 sections now. More needs to be done near my place so I'll work on that next Edited April 1, 2024 by RobinJ Missed some info 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr H Posted April 1, 2024 Share Posted April 1, 2024 1 hour ago, RobinJ said: Well I'm not sure why anyone would use negative emotion to manifest unless they are into the dark side. When you visualise what you want to happen via meditation etc you set an intention of higher good for all first. Then imagine what it looks, feels, smells sounds like to have that thing happen in the now. Attaching feelings as above is what I mean. You have be able to really live what it would be like. Heres an example. I live on the edge of a forest, there are other land owners who have access via a mountain road. The road is steep, winding and can be dangerous in the wet. So I imagined many times what it would be like to go along that road in all seasons, how happy and grateful I feel that it has been fixed. I use my hands to make the psysical driving motions, changing gear etc, i speak out loud how great it is that the road is now safe for all to use etc. I imagine in the present tense as if it has already happened. I did this many times over a few months. One month ago I met by chance a new land owner. We had a chat, turns out he was waiting for a truck to deliver some big rocks so as to start repairing the worst bit of the road! He has repaired 3 sections now. More needs to be done near my place so I'll work on that next Thanks Robin that makes a lot of sense and the example helped to know the steps. Just regarding the negative emotions per above. In the context that many personal development people will use negative emotions to motivate, because it works. Most popular one I see, is to imagine yourself dying and think of all the things you could have done - so it's visualizing but using fear to take action to lead to manifestation. I never personally felt comfortable with these techniques myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobinJ Posted April 2, 2024 Share Posted April 2, 2024 12 hours ago, Mr H said: Thanks Robin that makes a lot of sense and the example helped to know the steps. Just regarding the negative emotions per above. In the context that many personal development people will use negative emotions to motivate, because it works. Most popular one I see, is to imagine yourself dying and think of all the things you could have done - so it's visualizing but using fear to take action to lead to manifestation. I never personally felt comfortable with these techniques myself. Ah I see what you mean. That sounds like it *might work only for those who tend to err on the negative side of things as a general response. I had a friend like that back in the day. His first response was always to point out the pitfalls. Nearly drove me nuts! Constantly had to bite my tongue in his company. He was an order taker type who worked for one company for 30 years. I don't have those kinds of people around me now. I cleared them all out of my life. Now I seek out those who have a genuine desire to improve themselves. The thing I've found with manifestation is that you never know how it will turn up, and its usually not the way you expect. I find that quite fun once you let go of the expectation or control of how you expect things to go, they just kinda flow to you. I know that sounds kina wafty, but it really is true. Its like the correct energy just finds you. You need to be specific about what you ask for or it might take form in a way you don't want! Asking for abundant water might get you a flood, for example. Oops! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr H Posted April 2, 2024 Share Posted April 2, 2024 @RobinJ thanks Robin for the sharing and also reminded me of some work I need to.do. that friend you describe, that is essentially the programming I adopted growing up. Seeing the negative, criticizing. Not best way to operate. Been working on changing that for a while now. But needed to refocus and focus and do more work on it. As it's not fully dissolved, I can tell. Ty brother Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobinJ Posted April 2, 2024 Share Posted April 2, 2024 6 hours ago, Mr H said: @RobinJ thanks Robin for the sharing and also reminded me of some work I need to.do. that friend you describe, that is essentially the programming I adopted growing up. Seeing the negative, criticizing. Not best way to operate. Been working on changing that for a while now. But needed to refocus and focus and do more work on it. As it's not fully dissolved, I can tell. Ty brother Its funny isn't it, I thought I'd done all my inner clearing work too, then I had a little nudge and then a dream to cement the idea I'd not quite done! I definitely feel mentally and emotionally free now as opposed to needing control just to get through things. I just let go, remind myself something better is around the corner, eat humble pie once in a while 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitochondrial Eve Posted April 4, 2024 Share Posted April 4, 2024 On 3/25/2024 at 8:34 AM, Mr H said: I wonder if anyone else experience this paradox. The more desperate you are and attached you are emotionally and mentally to a result. Less likely you get it. Kinda weird. I'm guessing because coming from place of lack, or something? At the risk of being attacked for supporting “new age” dogma, I do feel there is truth in the idea that we create our own reality. I have had too much personal experience of manifestation – both positive and negative - to dismiss the concept as new age bum-fluffery. In my experience, smaller things can certainly arise more easily as is to be expected. I think that is likely because there is less emotional investment in the outcome and less energy needed overall for its achievement. For example, food items pop up for me reasonably regularly now just with a thought - they tend to materialise soon afterwards either at the community fridge or as a reduced item or deal. Other things I believe I have manifested include plants, dental treatment, crossing paths with certain people, the cancellation of a train strike so I could attend an event, unexpected doorstep parcels, jobs and courses and more. On a larger scale, I believe I have manifested my house, which became mine in the summer last year, and my mum has commented on how someone was “looking over” me. My move had been predicted by an astrologer too, at a time when a seed was only just forming in my mind, after I had previously given up on the prospect of becoming a homeowner. I had been renting for many years but became increasingly niggled with the situation with my landlords with a feeling that I needed to get out before I was pushed. I had vowed to myself that I would never rent again and was even prepared to go and live with my dad miles away. I wrote down what I hoped to manifest in terms of home ownership and what I received exceeded my expectations. It's not a mansion by any means, but it is more than adequate for my needs. The buying process was smooth and, although there was a hiccup which stalled things for a little while, it actually proved to be to my benefit. I was poised to hand in my notice to my landlords but, the day before I exchanged contracts on my new house, my landlords (who were not aware of my upcoming property purchase) gave me notice – but I was safe in knowing that I had secured somewhere else which was much better and which had materialised at exactly the right time. Frustratingly, however, there are some things I would dearly love to manifest but always seem to elude me and I can only conclude that there is too much emotional investment in the outcome which is causing resistance to letting these things in. Perhaps, by focusing on something overly, it can send out an energy of lack rather than abundance and that is what you attract back – more lack. Yet, equally, I feel that heed still needs to be paid to what our emotional guidance system is telling us as it helps put us in touch with our desires which, if healthy, are not natural to suppress. From that, an intention can be set but perhaps the key then is to stop pushing against the prevailing energy, let it go and trust that things will work themselves out for the best. Why I feel my house example is important is because I had surrendered the idea of attaining it. But, not only that, I had also generally positive feelings about previous places I had lived. My situation had improved over the years from one of homelessness to moving into privately rent flats which got better and better in quality. With each improvement, I was very grateful and basked in it. Therefore I feel that key parts to the positive manifestation process, alongside setting the intention, are acceptance and gratitude - with those in place, resistance does not have a place and creative source energy can be allowed in. Increasingly, I can feel when energy is aligned and flowing and when resistance is present – in knowing that, I try and back off and relax when I feel the energy is not with me and look for the positive aspects with appreciation of what I do have. It remains a work in progress though as I can be quite wilful and not always one for sitting back! There is still much more learning and honing to be done, but I am hopeful that one day this practice will become more polished compared to its present haphazardness. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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