tommydrifter Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 hello robss, hello everybody ----- re: what's the problem? my problem is the secrecy. i believe that people should know what is happening in their world. the secrecy and the lies harms everybody. when people are being one person in public and another person in private, this is confusing. how can you trust a person when they are duplicitous like this? re: anal sex my problem with anal sex is that i view this as an act of sado-masochism and i question whether this is not a confusion of pleasure and pain? is this an act of creation? or destruction (bringing a person down)? i am not saying a person should or shouldn't, just that this act is antithetical to my understanding of my own sexuality. gays need to realise, that for straights like me, taking one in the arsehole is the worst thing that could befall a person -- we would rather die. so yes, this is both an obsession and a fear of mine. ----- all right everybody, take care 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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