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It could be either. I could help my gf by 'taking' her headache away for instance. Then I was stuck with it myself, I pinpointed where it hurt, and she confirmed after the fact -  but she swore if we were together too long (say 2 weeks living together) she'd look worse! Apparently I was inadvertantly feeding off her, if you believe her side of it, or any of this kind of thing to begin with. I'm no expert either but I thought I'd share.

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Consciously or subconsciously, on their own, or as a vehicle for other things.

Doesn't matter.

You cannot win, you must leave.

There are always dark places on Earth, and light places ... just keep choosing the light.

Personally I have learned to do the violet flame when I feel darkness from people.  I learned sitting down in meditation, but started doing it whilst walking cycling or on the train.  Sometimes people look at you wrong, or hand groceries to you ... and there is a bad feeling.

If you are talking about a relationship which is draining ... you will not help that person by continuing to allow such behaviour.  Better to slam the door in their face so that they learn.  Maybe they will never learn.

Anyway, you have to just be happy to be happy and if people are draining ... move on.

 

 

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Energy vampires can be unconscious or conscious.  

 

Personality Profiles:

 

Unconscious:

One dude would come over and just pet me and do what I wanted with no strings attached.  Seemed like a good arrangement but he was a miserable person.  He had low energy, sluggish, always melancholy and a blunted affect.  Whenever I would get excited or happy about something he would swiftly cut it down. 

 

Conscious:

One girlfriend was a status seeker, shallow.  Always active, in the middle of the action.  She had a high turnover of people in her life because she always had ulterior motives.  Like inviting you out, not to be with you, but to use you as a prop to make herself appear likable.  She saw people as objects. 

 

Both types have a draining effect.  One erodes you slowly over time, the other will make you feel terrible immediately.  

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On 12/10/2020 at 8:42 PM, allymisfit said:

This is a topic I don't know much about, but I'd like to learn. 

From what I've gathered is that some people have the ability to drain the energy of others. 

Is this done consciously or subconsciously? 

 

 

 

Yes I don't think there is much to learn on this.

 

It's a new age spiritual term to describe people who drain your energy.

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35 minutes ago, Mr H said:

 

Yes I don't think there is much to learn on this.

 

It's a new age spiritual term to describe people who drain your energy.

Aaah, well that's that cleared haha.

Didn't realise it was a new age term.

Yuck!

 

😂

 

 

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On 12/10/2020 at 8:42 PM, allymisfit said:

 

From what I've gathered is that some people have the ability to drain the energy of others. 

Is this done consciously or subconsciously? 

 

 

In some Chinese martial arts the opponents energy is drained consciously but the victim won't usually know it is happening. They do it with their left hand.

In yogic healing although it's an internal process the transfer of healing energy is done with the right hand.

Left takes

Right gives

Both are dangerous if you don't know what you're doing for different reasons.

 

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On 12/11/2020 at 9:42 AM, allymisfit said:

This is a topic I don't know much about, but I'd like to learn. 

From what I've gathered is that some people have the ability to drain the energy of others. 

Is this done consciously or subconsciously? 

 

 

The whole system is vamperic. 

The human body is a transmutation device. Turning your energy into food for another race of beings. 

https://youtu.be/7v554QtlGKs

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I struggle with it badly, every single person I’m close to has the effect that it takes e a few days to recover 

 

it started with my dad when I was younger and carries on to this day, I hate it so much but I prefer it to loneliness sometimes 

 

people say just cut them off but I’ve never been able to,  but the effect it’s had on me is huge, when I feel drained I notice I seem to drain others sadly so I tend to just spend a few days a week recovering 

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15 hours ago, Liam3880 said:

I struggle with it badly, every single person I’m close to has the effect that it takes e a few days to recover 

 

it started with my dad when I was younger and carries on to this day, I hate it so much but I prefer it to loneliness sometimes 

 

people say just cut them off but I’ve never been able to,  but the effect it’s had on me is huge, when I feel drained I notice I seem to drain others sadly so I tend to just spend a few days a week recovering 

 

Yes I have same issue.

 

Steps I've taken to resolve which may or may not help you.

 

You have to excuse the use of I, we etc, I am just using those terms for the practical purpose of this conversion.

 

Step no1. I take the time to explore, or bathe in my own energetic field. Try to get accustomed to it. Where is it? What does it feel like? Does it have a location? Does it begin and end? etc etc....

 

Step no2. Once established and aware of own energetic field as per step no 1. You consciously approach another human, with sensitivity. Then you establish yourself in your energetic field, and as you approach them notice how it feels/seems etc when your energetic field meets another.

 

Does this feel overwhelming? Have you lost your sense of your self? Can you find your energetic field when in the presence of others? When conversing with them?

 

Just keep going back and forth until you feel comfortable that you can stay in your energetic field whilst exchanging with another human in their energetic field. And do this with kindness and patience.

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On 1/3/2021 at 7:54 PM, Itsa said:

In some Chinese martial arts the opponents energy is drained consciously but the victim won't usually know it is happening. They do it with their left hand.

In yogic healing although it's an internal process the transfer of healing energy is done with the right hand.

Left takes

Right gives

Both are dangerous if you don't know what you're doing for different reasons.

 

 

Would you expand on the danger a little bit more?

 

On 12/10/2020 at 8:42 PM, allymisfit said:

This is a topic I don't know much about, but I'd like to learn. 

From what I've gathered is that some people have the ability to drain the energy of others. 

Is this done consciously or subconsciously? 

 

 

 

I think you'd do well to learn more about this than thinking it's a new age term. Some would do it unconsciously, others more skilled at it.

 

On 1/3/2021 at 8:09 PM, DougASmall said:

The whole system is vamperic. 

The human body is a transmutation device. Turning your energy into food for another race of beings. 

https://youtu.be/7v554QtlGKs

 

You are right. The fact that we eat meat, veg...these are our main energy source. Then there is the human contact/relationships.

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6 hours ago, perpetual said:

think you'd do well to learn more about this than thinking it's a new age term. Some would do it unconsciously, others more skilled at it.

 

This is why I asked :)

I didn't suggest it was New Age, someone else did. 

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Just as the PTB get fat by feeding of the collective suffering and misery of the Human Race, I think all of us at some point in our life have done it too with other people.  Often you know you've been in the presence of an energy vampire when you get that heavy draining feeling in your chest and gut and your head seems to be filled with lead in their presence. It's impossible to feel good in their presence. Some energy vampires you can take steps to avoid in the future. However,  other times it's more insidious and seductive, in that it is hidden under illusion (usually your own weaving of one) in the guise of a 'relationship'. These people are usually aware that they suck the life force out of someone and they encourage and drip feed into the other persons psyche to secure  a long term feeding avenue. If you manage to survive a relationship like that, you are inevitably left a shell of a person with barely enough life inside of you to continue to exist.  These relationships can be familial ones, romantic ones (because some folks just love to be 'needed' and give away their energy to secure some kind of validation they think they may get in return, but never do...), work relationships and 'friendships' (usually the ones you'd love to escape from, but feel too guilty to pull the plug). The list goes on and on and on...anyhoo...that's my definition if it helps! lol!

 

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if you get how introversion/extroversion works, you'll understand this topic better. Plus also keep in mind, that when two people interact, if one if more confident/bossy and the other more nervous, the nervous one produces cortisol the stress chemical and the confident one dopamine. Unless the nervous one can flip the roles then they will receive dopamine. 

That's the physical aspect, in my beliefs there is a non physical aspect of energy exchange too, potentially being parasited. These same parasites could help maintain negative authority across the planet. However these parasites rely on maintaining a type of stasis with the host in order to secure their food supply. 

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On 12/10/2020 at 9:15 PM, - TZC - said:

It could be either. I could help my gf by 'taking' her headache away for instance. Then I was stuck with it myself, I pinpointed where it hurt, and she confirmed after the fact -  but she swore if we were together too long (say 2 weeks living together) she'd look worse! Apparently I was inadvertantly feeding off her, if you believe her side of it, or any of this kind of thing to begin with. I'm no expert either but I thought I'd share.

 

Thats hilarious, it actually sounds like she's feeding off him.

 

On 12/10/2020 at 9:02 PM, screamingeagle said:

"you bring me luck,come with me

 

You could take away her heacaches. Hmmmm. And then you feel it hmmm and she's like yup thats exactly where it is hmmm. Then to literally say she couldn't stand you for more than two weeks.

 

Feelings are feelings but how we express them. Are we acutely and honestly aware or is it all always magic and metaphysics.

 

I wasn't there but if someone said that too me after a couple weeks I'd be like 'If you don't want to be with me bitch....Coz you look fine to me'. Draining your energy, my ass, your a pain in my ass and thats real energy.

 

its about the vulnerable and those who keep you vulnerable. Enabling your lower and weaker qualities and not raising you up. Its a seemingly loving oppression.

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I think we've or lines crossed S.E, I agree with what you said

 

On 12/10/2020 at 9:02 PM, screamingeagle said:

sort of "you bring me luck,come with me

 

As it relates to 

 

On 12/10/2020 at 9:15 PM, - TZC - said:

I could help my gf by 'taking' her headache away for instance

 

My G.F hence, she/her...

 

As for seeing through B.S, if one is not susceptible to flattery then their B.S radar is usually somewhat more acute although again love is blind and there are those who prefere to lead the blind.

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