The fall of human relationships

[allymisfit]

It's been a long decline in human empathy and understanding. 

 

However, I feel now things are worse than ever.

 

People film or walk past those injured/hurt. Wtf?! 

 

People make cruel judgement based on the way another person looks (example, I'm 32 but still get a heck of a time for colouring my hair, wearing mainly black and flicked eyeliner. I can tell this angers a lot of people. You wouldn't believe the names I get called, simply for being alive. 

 

Mental health - oh this one is ironic. 

As we are aware, mental health issues are on the rise. 

We are told to talk about it.. But what do you do when people ask you how you are, say they care about you.. But as soon as you tell them, they ignore you or tell you to get over it as they have bigger problems in life. 

Why ask? To look like the caring friend, who deep down is an arse? 

 

Helping one another - another thing that seems to be lost for some many people. 

 

I could go on, but humanity has lost it. 

 

Don't get me wrong, not everyone is like this. There are lots of great people still out there. 

It's just something I'm noticing more and more. 

[Ozymandias]

Totally agree allymisfit.

As for the heavy judgement dished out on those who look a bit different...literally even the slightest deviation from the status quo dress code. It's astonishing nowadays how just a little tweaking of that and the eyes are upon you.

Don't get me started on the school run! Although I found a much more disinterested reception at my daughter's supposedly crap school with very low income parents than I did at one very 'desirable' and 'outstanding' school where I felt acutely like a wrong 'un amongst the other parents!  Maybe different demographics judge differently.

Many people just don't like the boat being rocked and any glitches in the software.

 

 

[Coldrum]

Type into google happy white woman

 

[wingwang]

I had a similar conversation with a woman recently. The conversation went into how people are more narcissistic these days, lacking in empathy and we were hypothesising as to the reasons why. My observations looked at the elderly and how when I was a kid I used to get taken to a social club where all the members would turn up in their Sunday best, men cleanly shaven, suited up, women in their best dresses all dolled up. Respectful with strong moral backbones. Perhaps it was because they were the WW2 generation and most were ex military(?)

 

Nowadays, senior citizens are more likely to do charlie and go out in a tracksuit and trainers! For the last few Christmases I've been volunteering where we go around in minibuses, collect the elderly [not against their will!] and take them to a venue where they get fed Christmas dinner and get entertained. Most are friendly, but there was a distinct air of disrespect, maliciousness, arrogance and just general nastiness. One time a bloke got all aggressive with me and I just walked away. I'm like, you're getting a free day out and I'm giving up my Christmas day for this shit?!  

 

The elderly now are baby boomers and I think that's where a lot of the problems started, perhaps. They're entitled, their houses have increased by a fat percentage. "We're miwwionaires [sic]". They are arrogant and pat themselves on the back thinking what a good job they done for society rebuilding after the war, but all they done was get born! It's supply and demand, after all!

 

Then there's the throwaway society, instant gratification, "me, me, me, me", dopamine hits from getting 'likes' on social media, porn addiction. It's not good. The conversation went on and we spoke about "Summers of Love" and how that could swing things the other way. We could do with one now and are due one as the last two were 30 years apart; the sixties then the rave scene. Did the summer of love we were due get cancelled due to lockdown we joked!

[rideforever]

There seems to be a large difference between urban people and countryside people ... 

 

[TheAwakened]

During lockdown my friendships have dwindled to the point now I have no real friends to speak of. Even my family members seem distant except maybe one the rest are false or mutual respect at best. 

 

My younger brother hardly converses with me (its been like this for years) and as I said friends just seem to message me now and again and thats it. Most my friendships are online with no chance of ever meeting these people.

 

I feel like I live in a world all alone with no hope of finding anything meaningful. I do have one good friend but I wonder how long that will last but I should be more positive as I understand (not, ''believe'') that negative thought patternings lead to the negative outcomes. 

 

Humans have lost their ability to think for others deeply, I was told by someone ''lockdown hasn't affected you much because you're still working...'' I replied quickly ''I DON'T WANT TO JUST GO TO WORK AND COME HOME THATS NOT WHY AM ALIVE...'' to which he corrected himself and showed a bit of understanding.

 

People seem to think life is just work and everything else is secondary including deep human relationships. 

 

The world is rotten I'm only 24 I dread the future I've got ahead.

[Chaos]

7 minutes ago, TheAwakened said:

During lockdown my friendships have dwindled to the point now I have no real friends to speak of. Even my family members seem distant except maybe one the rest are false or mutual respect at best. 

 

My younger brother hardly converses with me (its been like this for years) and as I said friends just seem to message me now and again and thats it. Most my friendships are online with no chance of ever meeting these people.

 

I feel like I live in a world all alone with no hope of finding anything meaningful. I do have one good friend but I wonder how long that will last but I should be more positive as I understand (not, ''believe'') that negative thought patternings lead to the negative outcomes. 

 

Humans have lost their ability to think for others deeply, I was told by someone ''lockdown hasn't affected you much because you're still working...'' I replied quickly ''I DON'T WANT TO JUST GO TO WORK AND COME HOME THATS NOT WHY AM ALIVE...'' to which he corrected himself and showed a bit of understanding.

 

People seem to think life is just work and everything else is secondary including deep human relationships. 

 

The world is rotten I'm only 24 I dread the future I've got ahead.

 

I hear this. I’m 24 and feel extremely alone. If it wasn’t for my partner I’d be going insane. So many people abandoned me when I shared my opinion on this scamdemic.

 

Don’t lose hope. Distract yourself. Hell get on Tinder and find yourself a partner. Take advantage of the technology and free time we have while the ‘outside world’ is (hopefully) temporarily out of bounds.

[Firebird]

4 hours ago, Coldrum said:

Type into google happy white woman

 

 

Not surprised at all.

They were pushing that in Weimar Germany too.

 

Edited November 8, 2020 by Firebird

[Golden Retriever]

20 minutes ago, TheAwakened said:

During lockdown my friendships have dwindled to the point now I have no real friends to speak of. Even my family members seem distant except maybe one the rest are false or mutual respect at best. 

 

My younger brother hardly converses with me (its been like this for years) and as I said friends just seem to message me now and again and thats it. Most my friendships are online with no chance of ever meeting these people.

 

I feel like I live in a world all alone with no hope of finding anything meaningful. I do have one good friend but I wonder how long that will last but I should be more positive as I understand (not, ''believe'') that negative thought patternings lead to the negative outcomes. 

 

Humans have lost their ability to think for others deeply, I was told by someone ''lockdown hasn't affected you much because you're still working...'' I replied quickly ''I DON'T WANT TO JUST GO TO WORK AND COME HOME THATS NOT WHY AM ALIVE...'' to which he corrected himself and showed a bit of understanding.

 

People seem to think life is just work and everything else is secondary including deep human relationships. 

 

The world is rotten I'm only 24 I dread the future I've got ahead.

 

 

I'm so sorry to hear this. I have my ups and downs and now more than ever question some friendships I've had for decades, because

some of these people are lacking empathy for those suffering under these draconian measures.

 

Enjoy nature when the weather allows it.  Play uplifting music and try to focus on those things which make you laugh, like your favourite

comedy shows etc. All the best. x

[TheAwakened]

43 minutes ago, Chaos said:

 

I hear this. I’m 24 and feel extremely alone. If it wasn’t for my partner I’d be going insane. So many people abandoned me when I shared my opinion on this scamdemic.

 

Don’t lose hope. Distract yourself. Hell get on Tinder and find yourself a partner. Take advantage of the technology and free time we have while the ‘outside world’ is (hopefully) temporarily out of bounds.

Its tough, I expressed my opinions with my dad and he seems so brainwashed its amazing but at the same time he voiced other opinions which were very non-mainstream. So maybe he'll open his eyes - probably take him years.

27 minutes ago, Golden Retriever said:

 

 

I'm so sorry to hear this. I have my ups and downs and now more than ever question some friendships I've had for decades, because

some of these people are lacking empathy for those suffering under these draconian measures.

 

Enjoy nature when the weather allows it.  Play uplifting music and try to focus on those things which make you laugh, like your favourite

comedy shows etc. All the best. x

Yes!

 

This is what I find so strange because some people seem to just delete not from their minds...

[Macnamara]

1 hour ago, rideforever said:

There seems to be a large difference between urban people and countryside people ...

 

urban people live in the belly of the beast and are most affected by the entrainment of the hive mind through constant bombardment of the propaganda and social engineering

[rideforever]

On 11/8/2020 at 4:13 PM, Macnamara said:

urban people live in the belly of the beast and are most affected by the entrainment of the hive mind through constant bombardment of the propaganda and social engineering

Yes I wonder if outside of the urban bullshit and the stuff people watch on their phone ... if the world is much the same ... what changed, only the BS on your phone ... ??

[Macnamara]

19 minutes ago, rideforever said:

Yes I wonder if outside of the urban bullshit and the stuff people watch on their phone ... if the world is much the same ... what changed, only the BS on your phone ... ??

 

Destroying localism. self reliance, community and regional diversity is exactly the goal of the globalists in seeking to move all humans off the land and into 'urban zones' as part of UN Agenda 2030

[rideforever]

On 11/8/2020 at 4:48 PM, Macnamara said:

Destroying localism. self reliance, community and regional diversity is exactly the goal of the globalists in seeking to move all humans off the land and into 'urban zones' as part of UN Agenda 2030

 

Well ... I was in some small out of the way places in the south downs today and people were walking their dogs ... and just looked pretty normal.  No rainbows neither.
Especially with remote working these days, urbanisation maybe it's gonna change.   Of course there will be a group of urban victims who check what the latest global narrative is and torture themselves ... but meanwhile in the real world someone has to build the houses and drive the trucks, no ?

 

[Macnamara]

13 minutes ago, rideforever said:

but meanwhile in the real world someone has to build the houses and drive the trucks, no ?

 

no

 

The british government is investing heavily in autonomous vehicles and smart motorways. They have already experimented with driverless lorries

 

As for building houses that can be done with 3D printers and there are also now bricklaying robots

 

 

 

[Macnamara]

Giant 3D-printer builds a TWO-STORY house in one piece

 

Fleets of 'driverless' lorries will be trialled on britain's motorways from next year, government a

 

[rideforever]

Human beings are not awake, they are "Astral" creatures which means that they live mainly in the subconscious world.  Although they appear to walk in daylight, inside they are still in a dream that is only a little different from sleeping.  What is the "news" ... it's a dream, the global narrative, it's just a shared dream.

Humans are dreaming as they live.  That is their level, they are "Astral" creatures.  

And "dark forces" .. meaning unconscious forces ... rule the subconscious realm, it is world with little light .. but just enough for power structures and power beings to exist ... they exist there but are not conscious.  It is a slavery world.  A world of light and noise and  pain.

There is some stability in the human world, some light, but ... it is not a world of light.  It is ruled by the darkness, and any light is quickly copied to death and degenerated so that the darkness can return.

This is the nature of this world and it will never change because this world has a place in the hierarchy of worlds.

There must be a place like this in the ladder from chaos to order.

The only solution is to go up one rung where things will be much better.

And that's it.  That is the bottom line.

You can die here a millionaire, a pauper, on your own or in a palace with 500 children ... it doesn't matter.   You will soon be forgotten.  But ... what are you leaving with, that is the question?

[Fluke]

On 11/6/2020 at 9:37 AM, allymisfit said:

It's been a long decline in human empathy and understanding. 

 

However, I feel now things are worse than ever.

 

People film or walk past those injured/hurt. Wtf?! 

 

People make cruel judgement based on the way another person looks (example, I'm 32 but still get a heck of a time for colouring my hair, wearing mainly black and flicked eyeliner. I can tell this angers a lot of people. You wouldn't believe the names I get called, simply for being alive. 

 

Mental health - oh this one is ironic. 

As we are aware, mental health issues are on the rise. 

We are told to talk about it.. But what do you do when people ask you how you are, say they care about you.. But as soon as you tell them, they ignore you or tell you to get over it as they have bigger problems in life. 

Why ask? To look like the caring friend, who deep down is an arse? 

 

Helping one another - another thing that seems to be lost for some many people. 

 

I could go on, but humanity has lost it. 

 

Don't get me wrong, not everyone is like this. There are lots of great people still out there. 

It's just something I'm noticing more and more. 

Agree with all of this it is sad. I still think the majority of people are good in their heart. But the majority seem to be cowards. There's a philosophical question I've been pondering for a while since the lockdown. Can one who is a coward be a good person? I'd say not. But being scared is different. Most of us fear something whether we admit t or not. I fear the technocratic Chinese type system we seem to be plundering towards. I digress. 

 

The filming thing Is something that urks me and perhaps I am being a tad naive but I think the majority. A lot of people will see someone in power like a policemen and then record their misfortune and upload it on social media. (I'm not against people recording the police if they've been stopped) That's been a trend for over a decade now. For instance a group of youths could be fighting and a police officer gets hurt and some twat will pull out their phone and record it rather than seeing a fellow human being in trouble. Fair enough not everyone has the guts to jump in a physical fight, but at least help the person, or call an ambulance. 

 

I just worry the younger ones (I'm 27) are being primed even worse than the millenials. I mean there's videos going around and it is a massive trend of couples having babies and giving birth and literally recording it. It's almost like they cannot tell the difference between real life and what they see through their phones. And thousands of comments all supportive now I am aware I'm being judgemental and they can do whatever the hell they want but it scares me actually...is nothing private anymore? One of the reasons I came off of FB I realised that people wanted validation for them and their perceived success. And those that were and are "successful" probably wouldn't see themselves as such, if it wasn't for the validation of their "friends". 

 

500 people I had on there. Guess how many kept in contact with me after I deleted the account? 1 . 

 

But it also happens with ordinary citizens which is just sad. In this paradigm the same human beings I have noticed are the type that try and get other people sacked for genuine mistakes. I'm talking about customer service now not within the firm or company. For an example, my younger brother has been working and he forgot to put a fence barrier (it wasn't dangerous) and another person drove past and instead of stopping and explaining he has to have the barrier up (my brother was new) he decided he would complain to his firm and took the number plate down. 

 

Of course these type of people are a pest at the worst, and it's a minor example. The only way we can combat them is to be smarter, be aware and not let our guards down. Don't mean to sound righteous and sanctimonious but I'd personally never try and get someone the sack unless they are genuinely rude and treat me like shit. And it's also good to bare in mind people have bad days. But there are some people that I've complained about if they genuinely treat me and others like shit and I'll say it to their face as well. 

 

I agree about the mental health. The thing is all these campaigns telling us to "be open" well I tried that when I was young naive and stupid. I thought well, it's only logic that you can get ill in the mind as well as your body. Turns out you'd be seen as a weirdo. I know there's lots of doubt about mental health, I think a lot of it is physical, and phychiatry has a dark side but I don't think all. But there isn't much awareness so I am skeptical about the approach of being open. As a man and this isn't an attack on the women, it does seem much more aimed at women than it is men. The help that is.

When really it's societal. 

 

I have a darker opinion on people saying they care about you which I won't go into. But beware of anyone that says "talk to me anytime you want". It can be a narcissistic trick and they can discard you. Not all the time and of course it's nice to have someone you can trust. Don't be paranoid or anything but just be aware because I know how vulnerable one can feel when in a deep crisis. 

 

The helping people. Well. It falls into the recording thing doesn't it for a certain type of person that needs validation. It's been a trend and it's still as big as ever, it's growing. They can do good deeds for people but they'll post it on the internet. They'll give to charity but they'll tell everyone about it. Rather than just trying to do a good deed. We should look out and I indeed have always done I think.

 

My dad saved a little girl drowning once and the holiday camp wanted to give him a medal and he turned it down. Modest as you could get. He saved another boy a few years later that was struggling. He has achieved quite a lot in his life, but never speaks about it. Never shows emotion. He is old school if you like. 

 

Also the be kind mantra thing have you noticed that? To whom? I have manners, I am polite. But who should I he kind to? The state? Big corporations? The thief down the street? Do they want me to be a weak little flower? Jordan Peterson said something about weakness Is now seen as a virtue when it's not. Of course kindness isn't weakness. But that's another problem with modern culture. You'll say hi to someone in the street and they'll probably think you are a walk over. 

 

I was doing a job for my mate and I was speaking to a posh bloke in a posh part of bromley. After when he was leaving, I said "see ya later mate, take care". And he turned and gave me a strange look and walked on. It was like something out of only fools and horses. I didn't let it bother me though, I just thought it was quite amusing. 

 

On the looks thing. Unfortunately our generation has been brought up to think that looks are everything rather than content of character. It's always been like this in a way, but people are much more coarse about it. It's possible vanity has its place, but it's gone full narcissism. It's dangerous for everyone including the culture and what's left of it. 

 

Is it possible the person who remarked on your appearence is jealous? I only asked because when I was younger I had a complex and was self conscious. Not being tall and quite skinny. I got uppidy a few times with girls because I thought they were laughing at me, only to later find out they had actually liked me but I wasn't confident or aware. I know I'm not ugly, but I'm not an oil painting either. 

 

Sounds like it may have been a other girl being a bitch and getting jealous . 

 

You strike me as an empathic soul. He is not everyone's cup of tea but have you checked out Richard Grannons YouTube? I found him through Gareth icke. The ladies seem to like him and he is an attractive fella. I have gone off him slightly, but watching some of his videos especially the earlier ones helped me through depression and actually helped me learn to be more confident. (I'm not saying you are not so don't take it the wrong way as your post isn't wrong and you make some observations that can be backed up with empirical evidence. 

 

The ones dealing with narcissists and "predators" are helpful. His quote "be more wolf, and less lamb" resonated with me a lot. 

 

But I don't have much hope on the culture. Everywhere I look it seems is turning to shit. 

 

Stay sane. Don't let the bastards grind you down. 

 

Sorry to rant. But I think a lot of us can relate to this thread OP.

 

 

Edited November 8, 2020 by Fluke

[itsnotallrightjack]

Some very nice people with supportive comments on here. Nice to see. I really can't add anything further to what has been written, as it's been expressed so fully and expertly! I wish you all well.

[allymisfit]

18 hours ago, rideforever said:

There seems to be a large difference between urban people and countryside people ... 

 

Sometimes... I've met a lot of country snobs (reminds me of that Blur song lol), but this is North East Scotland for you. It's full of snobs left, right, centre because of the magical oil that will save them all and make them all rich and better than everyone else because they achieved it all oh so easily

[allymisfit]

15 hours ago, Macnamara said:

Giant 3D-printer builds a TWO-STORY house in one piece

 

Fleets of 'driverless' lorries will be trialled on britain's motorways from next year, government a

 

I actually wouldn't mind a 3d printed hooosey hehe. Might be cheaper than what's going around these days 

[rideforever]

On 11/9/2020 at 9:05 AM, allymisfit said:

will save them all and make them all rich and better than everyone else because they achieved it all oh so easily

Yeah its interesting that people who win things are considered to be better automatically.  But .. not necessarily the case.   Sometimes it is, sometimes it is not.   This is interesting to see, people accept it unquestioningly.  People for instance see money but not where the money comes from, whether it is good money or bad.

At least ... in the discourse that people speak to each other they don't seem to see the difference.

But in their guts I think they do know, instinctively they do know.

What this means is that the discourse and the social conversation is insincere ... it is phoney and we have all learnt to lie to get along in this world.

[allymisfit]

13 minutes ago, rideforever said:

Yeah its interesting that people who win things are considered to be better automatically.  But .. not necessarily the case.   Sometimes it is, sometimes it is not.   This is interesting to see, people accept it unquestioningly.  People for instance see money but not where the money comes from, whether it is good money or bad.

At least ... in the discourse that people speak to each other they don't seem to see the difference.

But in their guts I think they do know, instinctively they do know.

What this means is that the discourse and the social conversation is insincere ... it is phoney and we have all learnt to lie to get along in this world.

I completely agree! So true.

[allymisfit]

Thank you all for your replies, I would reply to each but have a busy day ahead 

 

However, it seems we are all pretty much in the same boat and seeing the truths within people's hearts and intentions.

But another thing I've noticed is the understanding and sincerity from you all :)

I am really glad to be on here. You guys really do keep me going.

More real than most people I've met :) 

 

[itsnotallrightjack]

1 hour ago, allymisfit said:

I actually wouldn't mind a 3d printed hooosey hehe. Might be cheaper than what's going around these days 

 

This is the thing: all these plans for robotics/AI etc could really release ( liberate?)  people, well men especially from physical and sometimes dangerous work, boring work, drudgery etc. 

 

A couple of years or so ago I was engaging with a nice  fella on YouTube comments on a documentary about the A.I/robotics future who was such an optimist and expressed that we'd be freed from most jobs and with UBI be free to live more leisurely and creative lives in the future . I replied in theory this should lead to that but it never would because the elites are so disdainful of the masses, and they are used to having power over them, and never give anything away for free fun. They would control the robots and A.I so it would only be developed for their ultimate benefit.

 

I hope I didn't go too off topic there.

Edited November 9, 2020 by itsnotallrightjack