I've just come across this topic on here and not got round to reading all the comments but I have read about this topic before. How on earth can we be certain about it when we die ? 1. They tell you to ignore a welcome from a pre-deceased loved one, what if you do and it was genuinely your loved one and you reject them believing all this, can you imagine how hurt they would feel and what a terrible mistake you would have made 2. They tell you to not go towards the light, it's a trap. Choose another light reflecting from another part, and say you do, what guarantee have you you have made the right choice ? You could end up somewhere much worse than Earth. I mean as we can never have any certainty about what happens after death, you definitely cannot have any certainty about this !!!