We Regret to Inform You...

[h1s_l0rdsh1p]

Ladies and Gentlemen,
Boys and Girls.

We regret to inform you, that you have been lied to.
We regret to inform you that you have been opressed.
We regret to inform you, that for hundreds, if not thousands of years,
an elite group of people have been trying to make you their slaves.
And we regret to inform you;
That's it's your own damn fault.
You were warned. You were told so many times. But you just couldn't let go of the fear. So fuck you. Don't cry to me when your government is fucking you in the ass.
I regret to inform you.... Maybe you should use that "freedom of thought" one last time, uh.





Maybe this should of been in the poem section, uh?

[h1s_l0rdsh1p]

Maybe this is just wrong.

You know, I let my feelings out. And I felt I had a second awakening. But in new light of my g/f. My folks coming back from the US, and showing me that 9 year old kids in school are still doing simple add/subtract math...

Seriously. I'm just so let down, you know.

I come in to work, and hear so many of college talking about this kickass weekend they had, how they went to teh beach, how they went to these bars there, or saw these films and what not. What did I do?!
WHAT THE HELL DID I DO?!

I SAT DOWN ON SATURDAY, HAVING TO GO THROUGH DUTCH LABOR UNION LAWS BECAUS MY G/F WAS TOO HYSTERICAL TO DO IT HERSELF! BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T READ HER CONTRACT WHEN I HAVE SAT HERE AND TOLD HER AND EVERYONE I KNOW THAT THEY NEED TO READ THEIR CONTRACTS FULLY! I DON'T TALK TO HEAR MYSELF TALK!! AND THEN, BECAUSE I RUN INTO A PROBLEM, I CAN'T FIND ONE FUCKING THING, I ASK AN OLD FRIEND OF MINE, WHOM I HAD SEX WITH 3 GOD DAMN YEARS AGO!! ONCE!! FUCKING ONCE!! AND SHE'S GOT TO HAVE A HISSY FIT, UNTIL 2 AM!!! FUCK ME SIDEWAYS!! YOU WONDER WHY I YELL?! YOU WONDER WHY SOMETIMES I JUST WANT SOME FUCKING TIME TO MYSELF?!

"IF YOU JUST WANNA BREAK UP, THEN WE SHOUDL THEN." SHE TELLS ME!! WTF!!! I NEVER SAID THAT, QUIT BEING SUCH A PESSIMESTIC PERSON...



Yes, I have personal issues, and no friends at this moment.. I would say maybe I should see a shrink. But I can't be fucked. They are abunch of liars that try to get you to stick with society as it is.

[Anders Lindman]

The rulers would never tell a lie, would they? Condolizard Rice said that no one had ever thought about buildings being attacked by planes. Something like that.

[lifeofbrian]

Hey, I think we've all been there. Or will be some day.

There is just no talking or cooperating with someone in hysterics. Just refuse to help in any way as long as the hissyfit is going on. I suggest repeating that, until they understand it is pointless to try to manipulate or micromanage someone else into helping by being aggressive and hostile, for example:

- As long as you shout and go on like that you obviously are not your usual self, so until you have calmed down, I will wait. I am ready to help you when you are ready to treat me with respect.

Hope you're still looking forward to nicer weekends.

[h1s_l0rdsh1p]

No, I think running away into another country is better.

No longer having to answer to somebody or something for anything I do. Go to the mountains, I don't know.

I'm just soooooo fucking tired. I know I'm not alone, but I feel alone about all of this. And what's the biggest fucking problem here?

She doesn't even have any friend to talk to about this. She's got "social issues". She's really dead scared of having to socialize with people. If she's this fucking dead scared, then why is she working at the god damned movie theaters...

FUCK!!

Seriously, I get out, I'm going to the gym, and I'm beating the living FUCK out of that punching bag.

EDIT:
But no, I can't break up with her. You see, if I do that, then she's right. Seh said in the begining, you're going to break up with me! But you see, I don't want her to be right. And I know she loves me, I'm someone who's loved her uncondionally. I've done everythign in my power to help ehr have a good life here. But FUCK!! I don't want her to be right....

[h1s_l0rdsh1p]

Hey, I think we've all been there. Or will be some day.

There is just no talking or cooperating with someone in hysterics. Just refuse to help in any way as long as the hissyfit is going on. I suggest repeating that, until they understand it is pointless to try to manipulate or micromanage someone else into helping by being aggressive and hostile, for example:

- As long as you shout and go on like that you obviously are not your usual self, so until you have calmed down, I will wait. I am ready to help you when you are ready to treat me with respect.

Hope you're still looking forward to nicer weekends.

She wasn't pissed that I asked the girl for help. She was pissed that I even talked with her! This arrogant cunt!....

I'm sorry.

[lifeofbrian]

I hear ya. Before I got married I was in a strange relationship. We effectively tried to be everything for each other and lost touch with both friends and family in the process. I don't think it was very healthy. Men and women are different, there's no denying that. Well out of that relationship I was pretty disillusioned, and didn't even have the energy to invest in getting to know new people. Lived like a damn hermit for a few years. What my problem (and hers too I suppose) was, was that we had an unrealistic view of what a relationship was supposed to be like.

Four years later I got to know my wife (now ex but still a very close friend) and we talked about a lot of stuff before taking the plunge from just the sexual fun to a more steady thing. She kept her friends and I spent time with mates I got when I moved to the country she was living in.

Imo it's important to not only know what 'I' want from life and relationships, but to discuss it with a partner as well, if nothing else to see if there are some weird issues like morbid jealousy or anything else in their personality that seems 'off'.

Personal space is damn important, and there are women who are the same or at least understand that other people might need space more than they do.

Sounds like your woman there is very insecure like you say. That is not your problem to solve, and you can't solve that problem. Trying to solve it for her, is like trying to breathe for her, or eat for her. Maybe she should see some kind of life-coach or whatever they call themselves nowadays.

Punch bags are excellent! :D

[h1s_l0rdsh1p]

I hear ya. Before I got married I was in a strange relationship. We effectively tried to be everything for each other and lost touch with both friends and family in the process. I don't think it was very healthy. Men and women are different, there's no denying that. Well out of that relationship I was pretty disillusioned, and didn't even have the energy to invest in getting to know new people. Lived like a damn hermit for a few years. What my problem (and hers too I suppose) was, was that we had an unrealistic view of what a relationship was supposed to be like.

Four years later I got to know my wife (now ex but still a very close friend) and we talked about a lot of stuff before taking the plunge from just the sexual fun to a more steady thing. She kept her friends and I spent time with mates I got when I moved to the country she was living in.

Imo it's important to not only know what 'I' want from life and relationships, but to discuss it with a partner as well, if nothing else to see if there are some weird issues like morbid jealousy or anything else in their personality that seems 'off'.

Personal space is damn important, and there are women who are the same or at least understand that other people might need space more than they do.

Sounds like your woman there is very insecure like you say. That is not your problem to solve, and you can't solve that problem. Trying to solve it for her, is like trying to breathe for her, or eat for her. Maybe she should see some kind of life-coach or whatever they call themselves nowadays.

Punch bags are excellent! :D

You better believe those punching bags are great.

I don't know what to do. Frankly, I want to break up until she's got her own head in order. But know that:
She just lost her job
she might have the problem of getting sued
she doesn't make enough money to keep her apartment
she has school to worry about
and that she is very insecure

If I was to leave her now, I'm affraid of pushing her over the edge. Seriously, I'm lost. I don't know what to do. I love her, but god dammit, I can't take the shit anymore.

[lifeofbrian]

You better believe those punching bags are great.

I don't know what to do. Frankly, I want to break up until she's got her own head in order. But know that:
She just lost her job
she might have the problem of getting sued
she doesn't make enough money to keep her apartment
she has school to worry about
and that she is very insecure

If I was to leave her now, I'm affraid of pushing her over the edge. Seriously, I'm lost. I don't know what to do. I love her, but god dammit, I can't take the shit anymore.

Sounds like she has to grow up real fast and deal with her mess. OK, if I were you, or in that situation, I would try to forget the love-bit for a while and just try to be a friend. Because, when I love someone I tend to become overly protective and in a situation like this one that is no good. Being a friend though, would mean helping another friend to find solutions to their problems, without feeling responsibility or taking any blame that isn't mine to take.

The problems; what should the priority be.

1) She should look for a new job and keep looking until she gets one. Don't be picky, anything is better than nothing if she needs money to live, eat, etc.

2) Deal with a law-suit if and when that day comes, put those worries on hold for now. If the day comes, either own up to any known wrong or fight something unjust with the help of free legal aid.

3) Find a cheaper place to live as soon as possible.

4) If she worries about school she must speak to her teachers about those worries and get their advice.

5) If she can deal with her problems, her confidence will grow.

That's what I would suggest to her, as a starting point.

[28th kingdom]

But what is this really all about? This surely isn't about yer girlfriend... you sound like you have self-esteem & guilt issues... which probably means you were treated like crap as a child... who knows - just guessing...

You just need to change yer beliefs... right now - you come across as a people pleaser... which would mean you have low self-worth... and, if that is the case... yea, it is hell living like that...

The only thing you need to do is work on changing the belief you have about how you should be treated... because as it stands... you apparently think people should walk on you... at least that is what yer subconscious is saying... yer conscious mind... is the one going, "HEY... get me the fvck outta here!"

See... the problem, though - is that yer subconscious is the part of yer mind that's in control... so that's where you have to fix the issue... right now... yer having massive internal conflict because yer two minds are incongruent. You need to align yer conscious desires with yer subconscious beliefs.

Try hypnosis... that's a fast way to change beliefs.

[Anders Lindman]

I regret to inform you:

YouTube - Broadcast Yourself.

[h1s_l0rdsh1p]

But what is this really all about? This surely isn't about yer girlfriend... you sound like you have self-esteem & guilt issues... which probably means you were treated like crap as a child... who knows - just guessing...

You just need to change yer beliefs... right now - you come across as a people pleaser... which would mean you have low self-worth... and, if that is the case... yea, it is hell living like that...

The only thing you need to do is work on changing the belief you have about how you should be treated... because as it stands... you apparently think people should walk on you... at least that is what yer subconscious is saying... yer conscious mind... is the one going, "HEY... get me the fvck outta here!"

See... the problem, though - is that yer subconscious is the part of yer mind that's in control... so that's where you have to fix the issue... right now... yer having massive internal conflict because yer two minds are incongruent. You need to align yer conscious desires with yer subconscious beliefs.

Try hypnosis... that's a fast way to change beliefs.


Alright, yes. As a child, I was abused, and let everybody walk over me. I was put in the hospital for the abuse once and my mother lied for the bastard. When I was 11, I snapped and became a "bully" you could say. I almost put people in hospitals. But when I was 14, I was arrested for drugs, and spend some time in juvy. I got into many fights, but always lost, and even got stabbed in the leg. I've basically learned that ....

To tell you the truth, no, I've learned nothing. I'm sorry. And yes, I've admitted to being "the politician" to everyone I know. I'm the guy who trys to handle things in a logical fashion. That's one thing I have learned. 1: You don't leave people all alone. I know what it's like.
2: You always try to solve things in a logical and critical fashion.
3: No matter what happens, at one point murphys law is gonna catch up, so be prepared for it.
4: That it takes years to build trust, and suspision, not proof to destroy it.

Those are the things I ahve learned growing up. I also no I am very intolerant to stupid/intolerant/arrogant people. Infact, violently intolerant. I want to beat the shit out of every child molester I see, then again, when I see media, and society, I can't blame them too much.

I'm a confussed soul sometimes.. Sometimes, I'm in the zone, and other times, not.

Anything else you need to know?