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lightbeing
31-08-2007, 10:45 PM
Some of you will remember me telling you about my neighbour who had liver and pancreatic cancer. 2 days ago he had to go back in hospital, they stopped his meds just gave him morphine. He passed away 3 hours ago.
He was my immediate neighbour as I live in a terraced house, so this is hard, he was such a friendly decent guy, he would always help out in anyway he could.
I really feel for his wife, she is distraught with grief. I feel numb with it all, I new he didn't have long, but it's still hard. I will miss him greatly. He had just retired (55). At least he's not suffering now, he's in the next vibration of existence.

megafish33
01-09-2007, 02:31 AM
Hey, lightbeing,

Sorry for everybody's loss. I send you guys much love over there in London. I may not know who you are, but I know how it feels to loose a friend, family member, or even just a close acquientence. Since he was still on the morphine he probably had a blissful transfer. I'm sure he was thankful for all his family, friends, and for his good neighbors. :)

lightbeing
01-09-2007, 08:29 AM
Thanks megafish for replying and your thoughts:)

lookfar
01-09-2007, 02:17 PM
Hey LB

Sorry to hear that sad news, but at least he's now free from pain & suffering. Sending lots of love for all those grieving...

Take care honey.

lightbeing
01-09-2007, 11:26 PM
Hey LB

Sorry to hear that sad news, but at least he's now free from pain & suffering. Sending lots of love for all those grieving...

Take care honey.

Thanks lookfar:)
It's been a strange day, I know he's in a better place but it's very hard to get my head round I wont see him anymore.

lottie
01-09-2007, 11:44 PM
Ah LB, such a sad thing but only for those that were part of his life and knew him, im sure for him he's in a different place where he's pleased he's free from the constrictions here in the '3D world'! I have the opinion that we are the ones that feel loss and sadness when people pass on because we are the ones that are left behind and experience the loss and the emotions. Chin up....you'll adjust. :)

sean~infinte
01-09-2007, 11:54 PM
consciousness never dies

he was a kind and gentle man so he is at that matching frequency so he surely is in a better place
he is back home as we all shall be soon

we fear death only because it is fear of the unknown but what lies beyond the higher frequency is love in its purest and revealing form

hagbard_celine
02-09-2007, 11:57 AM
Deepest condelences, LB.

Sean Infinite and Lookfar are right. Your neighbour will live on in another reality and wherever he is he will be free of the pain he suffered in this life. It's the same for my mum.

limelady
02-09-2007, 01:42 PM
It does seem sad that somebody of 55 will never get to enjoy a well earned retirement. Cancer is one of the worst scourges of our reality. :(

So sorry for all concerned lightbeing, but as has already been mentioned, consciousness never dies.....your lovely, friendly neighbour is merely enjoying another state of existence now.....but its still sad for his family and friends, and awful that he had to suffer before he went.

Much love coming your way :)

karma19
03-09-2007, 04:56 PM
[QUOTE=limelady;114313]It does seem sad that somebody of 55 will never get to enjoy a well earned retirement. Cancer is one of the worst scourges of our reality. :(

My friend is 18 and dieing. She is brave and looking forward to the future. Maybe she will meet your neighbour in whatever comes next.

I feel for you and your neighbours family. Take Care

fantana
03-09-2007, 07:25 PM
I wish my neighbours would die. They hate me. Just because I accidentally blew their cat up in an experiment involving fireworks, roast ham and a trip wire.

karma19
03-09-2007, 07:30 PM
I'd love to have you as my neighbour...........such fun!!:D

fantana
03-09-2007, 07:47 PM
I'd love to have you as my neighbour...........such fun!!:D

But would you tell my Mum if I was being naughty?

bicycle
03-09-2007, 08:18 PM
I wish my neighbours would die. They hate me. Just because I accidentally blew their cat up in an experiment involving fireworks, roast ham and a trip wire.


Did you put it on youtube?:D

whitelightrabbit
03-09-2007, 09:55 PM
condolences lightbeing. you got it, he's in a better place, but i know, it's still hard for us earthbound ones. it takes time to get through the grieving. i imagine it's even harder for those who don't 'understand'. something that helps me is to light a candle everytime i'm sad.
take care brotha.

yeiayel
03-09-2007, 10:29 PM
:)Unfortunately my neighbours are still alive.:)

karma19
07-09-2007, 06:19 PM
But would you tell my Mum if I was being naughty?

I certainly would not;) I'd love it. Take Care x