Not feeling Happy

[karlyboy]

So last night at about two in the morning I msn’d soglad asking did he want to go for a walk and he said yeah. So I went off jogging down the seafront to meet him half way between my house and his. We met up and it was a nice night, no clouds in the sky at all, and I got suddenly depressed or upset, because you see I really love lying on the grass in a field or park just staring into space as there is no cars or noises that could remind me I am here, but it was that kind of time, no cars, busses, trains, nothing. And well the reason I was depressed was that I couldn’t see the stars because of the city aura and the street lamps. And as we were walking down the sea front he was telling me that the people on the forums are very friendly which I have indeed noticed, so I intend on getting the quartz, but also we were talking and its kind of hard for me to say this but I have been feeling lonely the past week or so and I simply want a hug, *embarrassed*.

Yeah but the thing that I think that upsets me the most is the world is so beautiful as in the nature perspective and I love it, just to be in a big open space and just lie down and watch the sky or at night watching the stars, but where im living you cant because of so much noise like cars, airoplanes or stuff like that and then when I come out in the late hours of the night 2-3 in the morning you cant see anything from the city aura and lights :(

I was also wondering Limelady you mentioned the quartz and having it closed to my heart could you explain that a bit more coz I’m quite interested, as in what it does and what kind of place would I get it?

/karlyboy

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[karlyboy]

Thanks Yay, stars too bad its not like seeing em for real :<

[soglad]

http://www.neilhague.com/artwork/9%2011.jpg
Rise above the bullshit, my friend.

[limelady]

Hi karlyboy!!!

Firstly this............

http://www.yourcoolprofile.com/Images/Hugs_And_Kisses/images/hugs-kisses--10.gif

A rose quartz crystal is just what you need if you are feeling inner loneliness.

Here is a link (http://www.mikalina.com/Texts/rose_quartz.htm)that will tell you about the special properties of this remarkable crystal.

I recently purchased a new new one from the weekend markets. But many alternative shops (hippy shops) have them also. I gave my last RQ to somebody who was heart-broken to the point of being inconsolable, and she believes the crystal healed her pain and made her feel worthwhile again.
She became so attached to the crystal she wouldn't give it back :p

I'm by no means an expert on the ins and outs of healing with crystals, but this would be my advice. Firstly, hold a few in your hand before you buy....the one that's meant for you will feel just right. Then when you get home, sit with it in you hand for a while and with your mind, ask it to help you feel at one with love. Love resonates on a very high vibrational frequency, so send your own loving thoughts into your crystal to 'program' it with love. Quartz is transmitter/receive so it will store your love, then transmit love back out to you constantly. The colour pink of the RQ is associated (vibrationally) with love and the heart chakra specifically. This is why I suggested you place it near your heart chakra (http://www.sacredcenters.com/chakras.html). Note that the colour green is also associated with the heart chakra, also known as chakra #4

This loneliness you are feeling is something many of us are experiencing bouts of at the moment. It seems to be part of the process of planetary and individual change we are all going through.

You'll bounce back up. Remember that you are loved. :)

Enjoy your RQ.

LL

[phoebe]

May I suggest...
Double-terminated quartz (for a pendant or such)
Double-terminated quartz cluster (for in your home).

Hope you feel better karlyboy. :)

[soglad]

I might get one of these myself, just to see.

I'm sure some shop in town has one :D

[soglad]

Although I'd rather get green, green's a special colour for me and my heart chakra :D

Pink.....meh :o

[karlyboy]

Thats great, I am wondering though, the love I am supposed to be thingking about, well, thats the thing, I dont know what way to percieve love, as in love for a man of women and in what way do I think of love?

And I believe this is another one of societies "programmings" they tell you what your emotions are, when I think of love I think of a man and a woman, but I know thats not love so I am tring to find out how and what it is.

And to add in after I saw the post that were made in while I was makeing this one:D

Ye Im sure somewere has it in town we should go in and get one.

Thanks pheobe :) and Limelady for your help/care

[lifeofbrian]

Some add info on quartz crystals.

Shamans use them to hold soul fragments in when doing soul retrievals, like a magnet and container. Keeping one on your person all the time will affect your soul.

[soglad]

Thats great, I am wondering though, the love I am supposed to be thingking about, well, thats the thing, I dont know what way to percieve love, as in love for a man of women and in what way do I think of love?

And I believe this is another one of societies "programmings" they tell you what your emotions are, when I think of love I think of a man and a woman, but I know thats not love so I am tring to find out how and what it is.

Takes a while to figure it out. It's confusing at first, but you'll realize this love can be accessed through anything, not just a women. We've definitely been programed to seek "love" with women/sex, and that only, when it should be open and un-byist (I told you this a while ago and you gave me a weird look hehe).

Hard concept to get used to.

[freespark]

Ah nice one...i think i'm gonna get meh some of this quartz! ;)

Hi karlyboy!!!

This loneliness you are feeling is something many of us are experiencing bouts of at the moment. It seems to be part of the process of planetary and individual change we are all going through.

You'll bounce back up. Remember that you are loved. :)

LL

I wish it would bloody hurry up and be done with it lol!!

[lifeofbrian]

Thats great, I am wondering though, the love I am supposed to be thingking about, well, thats the thing, I dont know what way to percieve love, as in love for a man of women and in what way do I think of love?

And I believe this is another one of societies "programmings" they tell you what your emotions are, when I think of love I think of a man and a woman, but I know thats not love so I am tring to find out how and what it is.

It doesn't have to be complicated. True friends are the embodiment of love in every day life.

Also, they are the best medicine for loneliness. So is family for those lucky enough to have one. Family and friends used to be the obvious 'councelors'/therapists. After all, they loved their own without effort and wanted what was best for them.

Attachment to objects as a substitute for human interactions seems like an expression of the materialistic approach nowadays. As if people are less than objects.

ETA: You mentioned needing a hug. Are you aware physical contact strengthens the immune system (speaking of which elsewhere) as the exchange of energy helps balance any acute imbalances both physically and emotionally? The comfort physical contact with another living being provides is what people with pets know is priceless. And in a comfortable state of being the smile, laughter and a lighter feeling is not far behind.

Sorry for going against the grain. Not intended to upset or provoke anybody.

[limelady]

Although I'd rather get green, green's a special colour for me and my heart chakra :D

Pink.....meh :o

Wearing green will give you a lift if your feeling gloomy and sad....and being that you and karlyboy are both Irish that shouldn't be a problem for you should it? LOL :D

http://www.animationplayhouse.com/elf_back.gif

[soglad]

Wearing green will give you a lift if your feeling gloomy and sad....and being that you and karlyboy are both Irish that shouldn't be a problem for you should it? LOL :D

http://www.animationplayhouse.com/elf_back.gif

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAH!

Little multi-dimentional leaperachauns!

Top O' da universe to ya!

[karlyboy]

One word, legend :D

[kashmirz]

Know exactly how you feel man <3

a thousand hugs from me i assure you :)

dont know if this will help, but its a picture from my favorite peice of fiction, whenever im sad i just look at this

http://img513.imageshack.us/img513/8338/dt14ac3.th.jpg (http://img513.imageshack.us/my.php?image=dt14ac3.jpg)

[i_am]

http://img256.imageshack.us/img256/1776/angelzw7.gif (http://imageshack.us)


The love of which we speak is not physical but is a joy that you feel at the core of your being. When combined with the physical expression that we as humans usually call love, it can be something awesome.

[Anders Lindman]

Learn to think with your heart. The trick is how to do that. I don't know yet. :D But it's certainly not the same thing as thinking with the brain. The only thing the brain can do is to think about the heart. :mad:

[lemonique]

Just wanted to send you some Love Karlyboy and it would be a pleasure and an honour to give you a BIG HUG as well. Except I live in New Zealand :D
I'm 60 years young...and I have days where I'm Sooooo lonely and sad..... You maybe would think these things only affect the young? Noooo
It's like that for most of us at the moment. A saying....'This too will pass' was handed to me from my Mum.....many moons ago.....it's a good thing to say to ourselves when we are down there !
Sounds like you have a friend in Soglad!! lucky you :)
Chin Up Chook!! This too will pass.

Love and Kisses
Lemonique xxx

[karlyboy]

Yep we have been friends many years, ya know childhood driends :D

And thanks guys im feeling alot better now

hugs and kisses to all :D

<3