Relationships and Consciousness

[conviction]

Hello all, I have been studying human consciousness, matrix, Illuminati, etc. I think I will find a good home here with people that most likely share my spirituality.

I would like help on some of advice. I am still developing my understanding on how to employ the elements of consciousness into my everyday life and with my practice I continually develop. The problem I am having is understanding relationships. Is it wrong for me to want to have a long term relationship with a girl? Is that a programmed habit?

So far I cannot deny my interest in the opposite sex. From what I have learned so far is that whatever I put into the field I will get back and what clicked with me is that if I want to woo the women I am subconsciouslly attracted to I need to create the constantly feeling of utter awe, tender sweetness, whatever I think she will be attracted to. Would I be correct in my assessment? Anything related to relationships and creating them etc would be largely welcome.

[pinnochio]

So your a guy whos also attracted to guys?

[unusual_suspect]

Hello all, I have been studying human consciousness, matrix, Illuminati, etc. I think I will find a good home here with people that most likely share my spirituality.

I would like help on some of advice. I am still developing my understanding on how to employ the elements of consciousness into my everyday life and with my practice I continually develop. The problem I am having is understanding relationships. Is it wrong for me to want to have a long term relationship with a girl? Is that a programmed habit?

So far I cannot deny my interest in the opposite sex. From what I have learned so far is that whatever I put into the field I will get back and what clicked with me is that if I want to woo the women I am subconsciouslly attracted to I need to create the constantly feeling of utter awe, tender sweetness, whatever I think she will be attracted to. Would I be correct in my assessment? Anything related to relationships and creating them etc would be largely welcome.

Why would it be wrong to want a fulfilling emotionally intimate and sexual relationship with someone you really love? That is pretty awsome if you manage it :D

Maybe focus on what kind of partner you really want, how do you need to feel in a healthy happy relationship.

I ended up with a great relationship with a lovely bloke and I believe that much of this was through visualisation, I visualised it for nearly 2 years before I manifested it. Good luck :)

[conviction]

Why would it be wrong to want a fulfilling emotionally intimate and sexual relationship with someone you really love? That is pretty awsome if you manage it :D

Maybe focus on what kind of partner you really want, how do you need to feel in a healthy happy relationship.

I ended up with a great relationship with a lovely bloke and I believe that much of this was through visualisation, I visualised it for nearly 2 years before I manifested it. Good luck :)

Thanks. The more I think about it, it is definitely healthy to look for something as great as love. I just need to make sure that I don't depend my happiness on the person and keep my power but yet share my love.

[unusual_suspect]

Thanks. The more I think about it, it is definitely healthy to look for something as great as love. I just need to make sure that I don't depend my happiness on the person and keep my power but yet share my love.

Yeah, you knows it. I found this advice very useful, it is the most sensible advice I have ever had when it comes to relationships, if you follow this you can't go wrong. Believe me, I have made many mistakes in the past :cool:

What do you do when you've attracted a lovely person into your life; you need to avoid the following mistakes:

1. Assume the person is your soul mate immediately upon meeting or shortly thereafter. Look for signs that faith has brought you together and be amazed by the correlations in your lives.

2. Forget about your life, your friends, your self-care. When you have a soul mate, why would you need a life outside of the relationship?

3. Reveal everything, and test your partner with your worst behavior. Let it all hang out. After all, if this is truly your soul mate, he or she will love you no matter what.

4. Have sex right away. If you are meant to be together for a lifetime, you might as well get started on the fun part right away.

5. Ignore anything about your partner that does not mesh with your values, lifestyle, or belief system. True love can conquer such insignificant differences.

6. Do lots of drama together. Job, family, and life crises are great ways to establish a relationship and test whether or not you are meant to be together.

7. Spend as much time together as possible. When it's true love, you can't bear to let your partner out of your sight.

8. Ignore behavior that crosses your boundaries or hurts your feelings. It's true love, so it's ok.

9. Lavish a huge amount of attention on your partner or expect a huge amount of attention to be lavished on you. How else would you act if you finally found your soul mate?

10. Push the relationship forward and demand that it go deeper, in spite of where your partner is emotionally. You have the right to have the relationship be exactly how you want it to be and your soul mate owes you that.

Hope that helps you as much as it helped me :)

[conviction]

Yeah, you knows it. I found this advice very useful, it is the most sensible advice I have ever had when it comes to relationships, if you follow this you can't go wrong. Believe me, I have made many mistakes in the past :cool:

What do you do when you've attracted a lovely person into your life; you need to avoid the following mistakes:

1. Assume the person is your soul mate immediately upon meeting or shortly thereafter. Look for signs that faith has brought you together and be amazed by the correlations in your lives.

2. Forget about your life, your friends, your self-care. When you have a soul mate, why would you need a life outside of the relationship?

3. Reveal everything, and test your partner with your worst behavior. Let it all hang out. After all, if this is truly your soul mate, he or she will love you no matter what.

4. Have sex right away. If you are meant to be together for a lifetime, you might as well get started on the fun part right away.

5. Ignore anything about your partner that does not mesh with your values, lifestyle, or belief system. True love can conquer such insignificant differences.

6. Do lots of drama together. Job, family, and life crises are great ways to establish a relationship and test whether or not you are meant to be together.

7. Spend as much time together as possible. When it's true love, you can't bear to let your partner out of your sight.

8. Ignore behavior that crosses your boundaries or hurts your feelings. It's true love, so it's ok.

9. Lavish a huge amount of attention on your partner or expect a huge amount of attention to be lavished on you. How else would you act if you finally found your soul mate?

10. Push the relationship forward and demand that it go deeper, in spite of where your partner is emotionally. You have the right to have the relationship be exactly how you want it to be and your soul mate owes you that.

Hope that helps you as much as it helped me :)

I really like this list but #1 I believe is the very most important. I expect the best out of situations but may result in pitfall. I have developed eternal peacefulness so it doesn't bother me.

So do you think that instant connection is created by love ones or can it develop?

I just moved into college last week and just i made acquaintance with a girl I feel is superficial but yet upon hanging out a little bit I've felt a bond. I really don't know the girl yet though so I don't draw any conclusions but last night she kissed me on the cheek and we danced a little bit and now I feel a stronger connection. So I should assume she feels the same way? I guess yes would be my answer...

[unusual_suspect]

The relationship I am in now is the most healthiest one I have ever been in, and I took things really slowly. However, I had been badly hurt by people in the past and it was what we both needed.

I think the main thing is to show the other person respect and to respect yourself.

Like it said in those 10 points, don't rush things, the stage when you are getting to know someone is great fun, so don't rush it. Also, if you don't rush it and they are not the right person for you it's easy to get away from them :D

[conviction]

The relationship I am in now is the most healthiest one I have ever been in, and I took things really slowly. However, I had been badly hurt by people in the past and it was what we both needed.

I think the main thing is to show the other person respect and to respect yourself.

Like it said in those 10 points, don't rush things, the stage when you are getting to know someone is great fun, so don't rush it. Also, if you don't rush it and they are not the right person for you it's easy to get away from them :D

So you think I should I sacrifice inner feelings for the sake of taking it slow? At this point my feelings have been taking it slow so that's the good news. Perhaps that's a testament to my awareness. As long as I stay aware I should be able to trust what the divine matrix tells me.

I'm glad you have such a healthy relationship!

edit: i think my problem is that im thinking about it... my logical mind always creeps up on me!