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fantana
30-07-2007, 02:58 PM
As a HMHT it is a duty to be able to help those who need it and this may come in the form of pointing out blatant flaws. Other times however it maybe something which other people are either too stupid to notice or are ignoring because they are scared of dealing with problems. In the United Kingdom the highest killer of young men aged 16 – 24 is suicide. Statistic say that the majority of people know someone who is on medication or has killed themselves and are now dead which is basically what happens when you top yourself. In todays world depression is on the rise along with crime, fat people and government surveillance which is probably of the fat people to find out how they get so fat and laugh if they get stuck in alley ways. There are numerous causes for depression and it is the cause which needs to be beaten as it if were a rival in a Shirts off Showdown. Before you know the cause you need to spot the problem and below are a few key indicators of a troubled mind.

PREVIOUS CONDITIONS

If you know that they have a history of ill mental health then you’re one step ahead. Understanding anything is the key in winning unless you happen to be awesome at Enhancement Stories or can do magic. If you know someone has been in a bad way in their past, or has a repeatedly or extensively been in a bad way then the time to act is now. Just ask them if they’re ok! If it’s too hard to do, a little man note will suffice. Showing affection is not just something rabbits are capable of and a man note can brighten someone’s day. Don’t go overboard on the man note though and turn it into something which if anyone else read they may suspect you of being a Galien. Be straight to the point, no pun intended, and use the word mate a lot and add a joke in. Don’t put a X at the end, ever. Put it somewhere they will find, on a pillow, on their laptop, by their bed. It needs to be personal and written well so they can read it. If you don’t have a note pad and have to cut the paper be careful with the scissors or get an adult to do it for you.

RAPID CHANGES

Consistency isn’t always a good thing, unless it is getting the desired results. People like others who are consistent because it makes them predictable and people like the security that comes with predictability. If you are inconsistent you are changing, for the better of for the worse. The biggest changes you will find with a troubled mind will come thick and fast, no pun intended. This is a warning sign except without a big exclamation mark and the colour yellow. One minute they are looking to cure the disease of pregnancy and the next they are engaged and talking of having children which is almost as good as ending their life. They may quit their job or study and do away with ambitions they have. For them everything may seem too much. Certain things may trigger them to have a bad spell and these should be quite noticeable just like a HMHTs guns. It is a reflection of what is going on inside and things may manifest as a result of it and have undesirable consequences. Those closest will see it the most, but it may take an outsider to get the full picture, if you catch my drift. Of course being around someone who is changing a lot and is very spontaneous is a lot of fun, very entertaining. No one is sure what they are going to do or say next and they may take trips all over the country or world in a short period of time. It’s a lot of fun but remember they need help so look after them.

LIFE-LONG FRIENDS PUSHED AWAY

They maybe a mentor or a good friend. Someone they trust, non gay love and look up to. All of a sudden they are thrown out of the troubled persons life. It will come as a shock to both parties. Watch out for this one because you never know what kind of people will come in to replace those who have been ousted, they may even be Galien. The reasons for doing such things will come from a desire to move out of the bad place in their mind and any associations they have maybe linked with their friend and they feel that removing the people is removing the problem. This is only a half truth as the big picture is problems need to be dealt with head on, much like how to deal with a woman. This person will need support from everyone, its essential. Without it they will be left to feel all alone. Even if you don’t think they have friends who are good for them they will have to figure it out on their own, don’t push them as you yourself maybe looked upon as the bad guy and not as a HMHT who everyone either hates or loves, in a non gay way. Don’t be selfish and use their rough period, no pun intended, as a chance to remove people from their lives and make sure others don’t do it either. Maybe it’s too late, but at least your around.

A MILLION DIFFERENT PEOPLE

Mood swings in women are expected, when they are out of chocolate or on the rag. Men however are much more consistent. A troubled mind will go from one extreme to the next. One minute you’re talking to the greatest guy in the world the next you’re with an angry and often violent bastard. When somebody starts to slip into a bad patch in their life you will probably miss the first few indictaors, a lot like the times when you didn’t know that when a girl kept touching you and smiling she was attracted to you, in a non gay way. You may dismiss it as an off day and forget about it. Then it happens again and again. Given enough time you will wonder who this person is and they probably couldn’t even tell you. If its too late they may think they are you and you might confused and think you are them, then when someone else comes along everybody gets the names mixed up and a brawl may come of it. Don’t quit on them, because a HMHT never quits, not even when tired or badly grazed. Quitting on someone is something only a woman would do and not think twice about.

THEY START TO LIVE IN A TENT

This is a big indicator. Yearning for a less stressful life at one point or another hits us all. One where we can rest, recuperate and not get bad mouthed by every scumbag we come across. Someone who is in a dark place will take this to an extreme level and will develop a need for isolation away from everyone and anyone. A big give away is when they go out and spend a lot of money on camping gear and move into a wood filled with wild fury animals with big teeth. No one will be invited to see them except someone who they trust very much, perhaps someone they are in love with. They are trying to get away from it all, the problems and the pain, so don’t ignore this. If they are in non gay love then talk to that special someone and find out if they noticed anything. This may help the other half also as maybe she is a little overwhelmed with what is going on. After all, women are not capable of anything other than meaningless repetitive tasks like shopping and she maybe getting a lot of pressure put on her fragile little mind. Whatever you do though, don’t mate with her, this will actually cause more problems. Perving is ok.

FINAL THOUGHTS

It may happen to anyone, of any age. The world has changed a lot and people lost their way. They became out of touch with who or what they are and take the easiest route, the path of least resistance, which is the reason why the world has become the way it is. Nothing in life worth doing is easy which is why you never get involved with a girl who has a one night stand. It’s all to easy for people to dismiss others as a bad person, as someone to stay away from or someone who will never amount to nothing. Nobody is there to give you a second chance and for some people it will never come and the only way they can end their torment is through ending life, which is as precious as a record breaking dumbbell curl. If you know someone who has gone through any of this, personally or as a spectator then you can learn from them and this will help you to help those around you. I would even go as far to say that it could possibly happen to a HMHT such as myself, although I know of no reported cases. This is a subject a lot of people would be too scared too touch apon, much like my Guide to Spotting Galiens. Look out for others, because without HMHTs in the world who would they have to turn to? Be happy, stay lucky and remember, keep smiling. I’m back off to the woods now to go and sleep in my tent.

Yours in manliness,

Fantana

kooo
30-07-2007, 03:10 PM
You are nothing short of brilliant, in a non gay way :p

kooo
30-07-2007, 03:14 PM
There can be many pitfalls in opening up to others, most are at best painfully ignorant and at worst up there with the fairies and only succeed in making matters worse. I say get every bit of shit out of your life and sort the rest out yourself, that's what I do and it works for me.

fantana
30-07-2007, 03:32 PM
There can be many pitfalls in opening up to others, most are at best painfully ignorant and at worst up there with the fairies and only succeed in making matters worse. I say get every bit of shit out of your life and sort the rest out yourself, that's what I do and it works for me.

Never a finer word spoken.

Except of course by me.

kooo
30-07-2007, 03:38 PM
Never a finer word spoken.

Except of course by me.

I could never do it as good as you. You're the man, the baddest man online all 5'4" of you :p

If we were out in the real world I'd stalk you and offer you sexual favours (in a non gay way) :D

fantana
30-07-2007, 06:40 PM
I could never do it as good as you. You're the man, the baddest man online all 5'4" of you :p

If we were out in the real world I'd stalk you and offer you sexual favours (in a non gay way) :D

Damn, you go out in the real world? Thats dangerous, the tall people might stand on you.

It happens.

cheeb
30-07-2007, 07:07 PM
Fantana's got a tent, and is going "camping".

(in a non gay way, of course.)
:)