compliments with no expectations .To all woman .

[tracker]

I had no idea which forum to post this is , so I have chosen this one .

My idea for posting this thread goes out to the girls /women , ( no offense lads ) but when you read on you might see why .

My case for this thread comes under a guise that too many people don't know how to take compliments with out feeling that some one is coming on to them . In some bad cases , some people take insults from compliments .
many people are so repressed , so naive , and so harsh minded , that when a man gives a compliment to a woman , every one suddenly thinks that he iether plans to sleep with her or wants her in some bad way .

Well that bollocks !

I always thought and was bought up under the impression that if a compliment is due , then give it , and if you have something to say , say it !

so with these few thoughts in mind I give some compliments to the women of this forum , and even so -- to every woman alive , this is what I know about you .

From birth , this bad and sad place has thrown you into the realms of the ugly , and because this place is so ugly and harsh , it is harsh on making you feel ugly .
from birth , you are showered with barbies , thin dolls , short skirts on models and media brain washing traps , to make you feel , that you need their goodies to put on your body to look good . they claim that with out their products , that you are not pretty or attractive because they have the ultimate answer , because , it is the tenant , that you are made to feel ugly enough to believe you need these things .

comics
books
tv
radio

everywhere you go -------- this place is trying to tell you that with out their products , that you are not attractive .

well listen to the truth .

we are what we do !

this means , if you do good ------------ you LOOK GOOD !

this also means that there is no such thing as an ugly woman ( or for that manner an ugly man ) because it is what we do that defines us , and if you do good , you look good .

the only problem is ---------------- can you accept this truth ?


so with that in mind , I have 3 little presents for you all .
please listen to the words of these songs and remember the truth as its not out there somewhere , your looking in the wrong place .

Class Of 99; Wear Sunscreen - YouTube

THE BELLAMY BROTHERS "If I Said You Had A Beautiful Body" - YouTube


Whitney Houston - Greatest love of all - YouTube

:cool:

[unusual_suspect]

Tracker you're a luv :)

[tracker]

Tracker you're a luv :)


yeah well I am not an easy lay .

you couldnt have listened to all those songs that Quick , now go into the naughty corner and listen .lol.

thanks unusual suspect .

:cool:

[unusual_suspect]

yeah well I am not an easy lay .

you couldnt have listened to all those songs that Quick , now go into the naughty corner and listen .lol.

thanks unusual suspect .

:cool:

Sorry, I'm meant to be working so I saved time and skipped the vids, but I got the general sentimant from your post....off to the naughty corner for me then :rolleyes:

[tracker]

Sorry, I'm meant to be working so I saved time and skipped the vids, but I got the general sentimant from your post....off to the naughty corner for me then :rolleyes:

I was just sitting there and suddenly all this came up .
Some folks get my goat up , because if i have something to say , i say it .
sometimes I am then put in my place , and sometimes , if i look back upon my self and see i am wrong , i apologise .
but if a compliment is also due , i give them , and so many folks are unable to grap that sometimes , a man doesnt want a woman just because he gives her compliments where they are due .

I just fell that sometimes , women need to here these things .

( had some bad nightmares lately . one being that I had gone back in time to correct my past , and in the proccess of doing so I lost my children that I have now , and all I had left was my memories of a past reality time line and 24 hours to say good bye to every one i knew and guess what ?
i couldnt give enough love in that small time i had , love with no expectations
the rare kind you hardly ever see . but if one only had 24 hours to live , only then can you understand why people are so precious. )

if every one was faced with this nightmare , I am sure that the world would change in one hour , not 24 .

anyway , thats the long story .

[unusual_suspect]

I was just sitting there and suddenly all this came up .
Some folks get my goat up , because if i have something to say , i say it .
sometimes I am then put in my place , and sometimes , if i look back upon my self and see i am wrong , i apologise .
but if a compliment is also due , i give them , and so many folks are unable to grap that sometimes , a man doesnt want a woman just because he gives her compliments where they are due .

I just fell that sometimes , women need to here these things .

( had some bad nightmares lately . one being that I had gone back in time to correct my past , and in the proccess of doing so I lost my children that I have now , and all I had left was my memories of a past reality time line and 24 hours to say good bye to every one i knew and guess what ?
i couldnt give enough love in that small time i had , love with no expectations
the rare kind you hardly ever see . but if one only had 24 hours to live , only then can you understand why people are so precious. )

if every one was faced with this nightmare , I am sure that the world would change in one hour , not 24 .

anyway , thats the long story .

I know exactly what you mean. I have female friends that think because a bloke even looks at them they are perving them up, the same if a man is nice to them.

Tbh I have a lot of male friends and have always felt more at ease in male company, a couple of my friends say to people, you can say what you like round her, she's not a real girl she's one of us, not sure if that's good or not. Many people on this forum have assumed I am a bloke - maybe I need a girly avatar.

It just goes to show that you get women with more of a masculine energy and men with more of a feminine energy things are just not black and white.

I like the way you say what you think, please keep doing that Tracker :)

That's a heavy dream, sounds like your subconcious is trying to tell you something.

[tracker]

That's a heavy dream, sounds like your subconcious is trying to tell you something.

yeah thats exactly what I thought this morning .

:cool:

[tracker]

I know exactly what you mean. I have female friends that think because a bloke even looks at them they are perving them up, the same if a man is nice to them.


This is exactly what I am saying , even some women take insult or fear of attack from simple compliments

:cool:

[enga]

Thanks Tracker that is a really sweet sentiment. I've had this too when I've smiled at men...they think it means you're interested and it's not....just a friendly gesture.

[tracker]

Thanks Tracker that is a really sweet sentiment. I've had this too when I've smiled at men...they think it means you're interested and it's not....just a friendly gesture.

Just goes to show just how repressed humanity is , and yes silly old me was once that way in mind .
not any more though , I just feel that women ( Ie WOMAN ) was the original God that earth dwellers worshipped , coz lets face it , only a man god can fk up this place as well as it has done .

I aint anti man , but men leaders = death to men wmoen and children .
men bankers = bankrupsy
men religious leaders = fanatics and more child death .

Now put women in charge , and you wouldnt find one child dead , no one starving and now wars .
This is because women ( not being sexist or anything ) are inherently more loving and thoughtfull and there for it is almost against their nature for such bad things , which is why the system pounds them every day .

to make them targets , to keep them in their ( so called ) place .

women get a real bad deal .

:cool:

[white knight]

Just goes to show just how repressed humanity is , and yes silly old me was once that way in mind .
not any more though , I just feel that women ( Ie WOMAN ) was the original God that earth dwellers worshipped , coz lets face it , only a man god can fk up this place as well as it has done .

I aint anti man , but men leaders = death to men wmoen and children .
men bankers = bankrupsy
men religious leaders = fanatics and more child death .

Now put women in charge , and you wouldnt find one child dead , no one starving and now wars .
This is because women ( not being sexist or anything ) are inherently more loving and thoughtfull and there for it is almost against their nature for such bad things , which is why the system pounds them every day .

to make them targets , to keep them in their ( so called ) place .

women get a real bad deal .

:cool:

This suppression will end soon, for the feminine energy is the force that creates life in all it's forms.

This is where a woman's real beauty comes from, her ability to give life!

[tracker]

This suppression will end soon, for the feminine energy is the force that creates life in all it's forms.

This is where a woman's real beauty comes from, her ability to give life!

this si why women rulers do better than men with kingdoms .

one cannot argue with history .
men kill people , always have and always will fk up everything .

hence why this world is so damned dead , and that men are still in charge .

only a woman can make this plave better , its just the facts .

:cool:

[bobbydiva]

I tend to see the opposite. Female friends and my sister seem to take compliments too well, when I can tell they guy is just being a sleaze, or is completely up himself.

I for one never know when to give a compliment. What is a sincere compliment?
"Do you like my new dress"
"I'm indifferent"

[tracker]

I tend to see the opposite. Female friends and my sister seem to take compliments too well, when I can tell they guy is just being a sleaze, or is completely up himself.

I for one never know when to give a compliment. What is a sincere compliment?
"Do you like my new dress"
"I'm indifferent"


yeah but this remark is also what this thread is about .

why do people think that others are either up them self or a sleaze just for giving a compliment ?

like i said

some take offense or get deffensive .

Its not natural .

:cool:

[mystic nomad]

Good post and I agree with you, but at the same time I disagree with you. It's that the energies are all out of balance and in my experience men have no real role models and don't know who they are meant to be and the same goes for women.
To create life it takes two to come together to make the alchemical reaction. To nurture, protect and nourish that life it takes two.
Let us not buy in to the whole divide and rule, us and them between the sexes. We all have our role to fulfill, equal and opposite.
Some people are balanced, fulfilled and harmonious and can take compliments in the spirit they are given, others may feel unworthy, up themselves or paranoid and will not.
I too have the same nightmare but unfortunately for me it is all too real :)

[coco]

Thank you Tracker, you're a real sweetheart. :)

[bobbydiva]

why do people think that others are either up them self or a sleaze just for giving a compliment ?

:cool:

Ok I'll lay it out there, because some of us don't have the confidence to give compliments, and when we see other men give compliments and get laid (I'm exaggerating here, well a bit), it's like, well what a scumbag, I wish I could be a scumbag like that lol

[tracker]

you see , this is why you don't get laid chap .

for a starters , why on earth do you associate being laid comes down to a simple compliment ? you don't understand women .

ok yeah i will laugh , some women might be that easy , and if you do know of any , please tell me their phone number lol.

but getting aside from that , I noted that you commented and said men who can easily just get layed like that are scumbags ,--------------why ?

why is it that in your mind , that you associate being laid to being a scum bag ?

no one wants to be known as a scumbag , so if you associate being laid to being a scumbag , is it any wonder that your subconscious holds you away from such activity , after all , you wouldn't want to be known as a scumbag now would you ?

our own philosophies hold us down ! and that's the truth !

so , from thinking that women are that easily bought off , and that men who do this are scumbags ( even though you have already admitted it is an extreme )
your subconscious holds you away from getting laid dude .
how ?
because you convince your self that women are that stupid , and that any one who does want to have sex with you is so easily bought off , and that if you commit your self to the deed that you are a scumbag .

your own mind holds you back from what it is you want .
juts to end this post , i will let you know that I have given the truth in compliment where it is due with out expectation , as where you have spoken about getting layed .

I have the feeling that even though you may not be --------------------but defo seem to have the understanding of an ignorant muslim as far as women go , sorry dude no offense but i find many muslims dont know about women and truly think they are objects of onwership .
it seems as though you have the same construction in your thinking .
because women usually just cant be bought off with a few simple words like a short compliment . also -----------you should stop thinking that men who get it are scumbags .

they might be ----------------- but then not all men are scumbags .

it is wize not to mix the idea of sex with compliments .

i give compliments to women where and when it is due , it has nothing to do with sex .

if you learned how to seperate the two , then maybe your life might just change .

I am not ranting at you dude , I think every person should have some sex in their life .

maybe if you stopped hanging around with such people in your life you might learn differently . it seems that from what you know , comes from who'm you know .

change the circles and --------------------------goodluck .

[i_am]

Why thank you, tracker :)

http://img01.picoodle.com/img/img01/8/5/3/f_51123v1m_5feeee5.gif

[tracker]

Why thank you, tracker :)

http://img01.picoodle.com/img/img01/8/5/3/f_51123v1m_5feeee5.gif

Yeah but did you listen to them songs .

they are heart rendering , and mostly ----------------TRUE .


especially the fist one .


just for the record , you are welcome because ----------------its true .

:cool:

[i_am]

I have heard those songs heaps tracker but I will listen while I work :)

[bobbydiva]

I was simplifying it. Of course I know it's not that simple, and you don't have to label me or give me a psychology lesson, I'm the one that laid this out there LOL :p how condescending can you be in one post?

I'm admitting that many men (me included at times) do not have the confidence to give compliments and get conversation flowing etc, and that is why we may see those that do this as scumbags, when really we are jealous. That's how it is. It has nothing to do with viewing women as objects, like Muslims as you put it.

It's the old bully mentality, bring people down to feel better about yourself.

But that being said, we all know those cocksure man whores that do this every single weekend and often lead girls on, the real scumbags, and we also know those genuinely nice guys that just get on with everyone.

You say people don't like to be scumbags. I'd argue against this. It's like an ego trip.

you see , this is why you don't get laid chap .

for a starters , why on earth do you associate being laid comes down to a simple compliment ? you don't understand women .

ok yeah i will laugh , some women might be that easy , and if you do know of any , please tell me their phone number lol.

but getting aside from that , I noted that you commented and said men who can easily just get layed like that are scumbags ,--------------why ?

why is it that in your mind , that you associate being laid to being a scum bag ?

no one wants to be known as a scumbag , so if you associate being laid to being a scumbag , is it any wonder that your subconscious holds you away from such activity , after all , you wouldn't want to be known as a scumbag now would you ?

our own philosophies hold us down ! and that's the truth !

so , from thinking that women are that easily bought off , and that men who do this are scumbags ( even though you have already admitted it is an extreme )
your subconscious holds you away from getting laid dude .
how ?
because you convince your self that women are that stupid , and that any one who does want to have sex with you is so easily bought off , and that if you commit your self to the deed that you are a scumbag .

your own mind holds you back from what it is you want .
juts to end this post , i will let you know that I have given the truth in compliment where it is due with out expectation , as where you have spoken about getting layed .

I have the feeling that even though you may not be --------------------but defo seem to have the understanding of an ignorant muslim as far as women go , sorry dude no offense but i find many muslims dont know about women and truly think they are objects of onwership .
it seems as though you have the same construction in your thinking .
because women usually just cant be bought off with a few simple words like a short compliment . also -----------you should stop thinking that men who get it are scumbags .

they might be ----------------- but then not all men are scumbags .

it is wize not to mix the idea of sex with compliments .

i give compliments to women where and when it is due , it has nothing to do with sex .

if you learned how to seperate the two , then maybe your life might just change .

I am not ranting at you dude , I think every person should have some sex in their life .

maybe if you stopped hanging around with such people in your life you might learn differently . it seems that from what you know , comes from who'm you know .

change the circles and --------------------------goodluck .

[dreamweaver]

My idea for posting this thread goes out to the girls /women , ( no offense lads ) but when you read on you might see why.

"This one's for all the lay-deeeeeeeeez..." ;)

[tracker]

I was simplifying it. Of course I know it's not that simple, and you don't have to label me or give me a psychology lesson, I'm the one that laid this out there LOL :p how condescending can you be in one post?

I'm admitting that many men (me included at times) do not have the confidence to give compliments and get conversation flowing etc, and that is why we may see those that do this as scumbags, when really we are jealous. That's how it is. It has nothing to do with viewing women as objects, like Muslims as you put it.

It's the old bully mentality, bring people down to feel better about yourself.

But that being said, we all know those cocksure man whores that do this every single weekend and often lead girls on, the real scumbags, and we also know those genuinely nice guys that just get on with everyone.

You say people don't like to be scumbags. I'd argue against this. It's like an ego trip.

I was not being condescending , i was stating a fact , however it seems that I was wrong about it ,

I now understand what it is you were trying to say , and it might have served you well if you had have put that detail down in the 1st place i might not have gone through all that trouble to educate you ( :D joke ).

and now that we have that detail , i can verily agree with you , yeah men do down other men through jealousy in meek and meager attempts to better them selves .

and yeah i suppose the gigolo is a man i don't like my self .


:cool:

[dreamweaver]

I've been exposed to a different side of this, tracker.

A former partner of mine had some seriously bad experiences at the hands of men in her past. I'm not going to go into details, but it was very bad.

And in her experience, the men who banged on about being romantic and about how much they respected women and put them on a pedestal etc were "always the worst ones" and she instinctively regarded men like that as abusers ever since.

Obviously I'm not saying you are like that at all! :eek::eek: And obviously this one woman can't speak for all women. But it does give me a slightly different perspective - I've certainly been aware of stories of men who get a bit obsessive with the old compliments, flowers and gifts routine, only for things to turn nasty when their charms are rejected.

[unusual_suspect]

I've been exposed to a different side of this, tracker.

A former partner of mine had some seriously bad experiences at the hands of men in her past. I'm not going to go into details, but it was very bad.

And in her experience, the men who banged on about being romantic and about how much they respected women and put them on a pedestal etc were "always the worst ones" and she instinctively regarded men like that as abusers ever since.

Obviously I'm not saying you are like that at all! :eek::eek: And obviously this one woman can't speak for all women. But it does give me a slightly different perspective - I've certainly been aware of stories of men who get a bit obsessive with the old compliments, flowers and gifts routine, only for things to turn nasty when their charms are rejected.

OMG, I have so been there, my ex fiance who used to steal my tights! An IT consultant with a 6 figure salary, flowers, presents, champagne, shoes, holidays etc.

As soon as I moved in to his house he turned in to a complete control freak. 6 months later I moved out, the night I left he turned nasty and went for me. Luckily at the time I was still going to kickboxing so I showed that little twat who the daddy was :cool:

You really can't judge a book by it's cover, he was a scorpio too, my ideal match apparently!

[tracker]

I've been exposed to a different side of this, tracker.

I wonder what you insinuate with this remark ? lets see .

A former partner of mine had some seriously bad experiences at the hands of men in her past. I'm not going to go into details, but it was very bad.And in her experience, the men who banged on about being romantic and about how much they respected women and put them on a pedestal etc were "always the worst ones" and she instinctively regarded men like that as abusers ever since.

oh i see , so your saying that this different side you see about me is that I am an abuser .?????????? your desperate to hide something by pointing straight at me with an accusation that hold no ground .

I've been exposed to a different side of this, tracker.

A former partner of mine had some seriously bad experiences at the hands of men in her past. I'm not going to go into details, but it was very bad.
And in her experience, the men who banged on about being romantic and about how much they respected women and put them on a pedestal etc were "always the worst ones" and she instinctively regarded men like that as abusers ever since.
Obviously I'm not saying you are like that at all! :eek::eek: And obviously this one woman can't speak for all women. But it does give me a slightly different perspective - I've certainly been aware of stories of men who get a bit obsessive with the old compliments, flowers and gifts routine, only for things to turn nasty when their charms are rejected.

and of course your not saying that I am an abuser are you ? but you are insinuating it ---------( above so desperately )

I've been exposed to a different side of this, tracker. But it does give me a slightly different perspective - I've certainly been aware of stories of men who get a bit obsessive with the old compliments, flowers and gifts routine, only for things to turn nasty when their charms are rejected.

why would you do this ? what point are you proving here with this here say ?
do you think that someone not taking a simple compliment hurts me to this degree let alone bother me that much that I would be an abuser ? This is rather a desperate thing to say .

Obviously I'm not saying you are like that at all!
then why have you gone out of your way to insinuate it then ?
hmmm ?
why do you say this ( below ) unless you were throwing accusations of woman abuse ?
I've been exposed to a different side of this, tracker. ----bla bla bla bla --But it does give me a slightly different perspective
what ?


for some reason , telling women not to listen to the tv and radio , telling them to listen to the songs about self respect ------------------is some how related to romance and makes me an abuser ? thats a strange way to see things .

(as you said in your own words here)
"This one's for all the lay-deeeeeeeeez..." ;)

why do you say ---------LAY-deeeeeeez ?
well when you see women that way ?( very strange )

yet -----------------this statement from you and your fictisiouse X partner of yours has certianly made every one else here see you in a different way , or maybe she left you because she found out that she didnt fit the PROFILE of what type of woman you really fancy ------like --those being accused of killing children as you have rescently confessed on forum .
(here )
http://www.davidicke.com/forum/showthread.php?t=54691
Yes it does tend to show on that thread that you like feeling for those you shouldnt do .

Knowing that your X former partner knows about abuse , and can see it in other people , and knowing what you have so proudly admitted on that thread ,
certianly puts a new perspective on on why she isnt with you anymore .

I now see a different side to this --------dreamweaver .
with willy wonka as an avaiter .

I am not saying you are anything at all ,( these are just observations ) all im saying is that people who point at others with the use of eager inuendos of accusation often have something bad to hide as do you .
I have to agree with you , SOMETIMES , people come on all nice and stuff then turn out to be well wrongons . your 2 posts above have proved that .

[tracker]

OMG, I have so been there, my ex fiance who used to steal my tights! An IT consultant with a 6 figure salary, flowers, presents, champagne, shoes, holidays etc.

As soon as I moved in to his house he turned in to a complete control freak. 6 months later I moved out, the night I left he turned nasty and went for me. Luckily at the time I was still going to kickboxing so I showed that little twat who the daddy was :cool:

You really can't judge a book by it's cover, he was a scorpio too, my ideal match apparently!


well --?????????????yeah ------------------unusual suspect ,
one minute you say I am a luv for giving this thread , next minute you
agree with dreamweazle and create a larger web ----------------(why not) ----------------by adding more men that compliment women and give them advice are women abusers .
am I glad i gave you so much time and advice with true support on your thread .
( here )
http://www.davidicke.com/forum/showthread.php?t=68829
gee thanks a bunch , nice to know how much that was apreciated and yes your right , sometimes people come on all nice then turn out to be bad .

:cool:

[tracker]

I have heard those songs heaps tracker but I will listen while I work :)


yeah thats ok I-am , only telling you the truth .
if you listen too much to other people and the media , it will create a program with in your subconsciouse that you are supposed to feel ugly .

I noticed that even children these days are made to feel ugly now .
take the make " Nelly Kelly " :rolleyes:

they made an advert on TV that said
"make your toes look pritty" -------- (with some type of paint glitter)

so the essance of that advert is to tell children ( FFS ---------CHILDREN ) that their toes are ugly and need to be made to look pritty ----------with their product .:eek:

to me --------that is a violation and a mind rape of integrety upon children .:mad:

how dare they place such abuse on the TV at prime time viewing too :mad:

Some adults these days just dont think twice if it concerns making an axtra buck .:cool:

[tracker]

:cool:

[tracker]

when really we are jealous. That's how it is.

It's the old bully mentality, bring people down to feel better about yourself.

But that being said, we all know those cocksure man whores that do this every single weekend and often lead girls on, the real scumbags,

You say people don't like to be scumbags. I'd argue against this. It's like an ego trip.


yeah we have just seen a prime example of that Bobbydiva , someone called dreamweazle did exactly that on the previouse page .
look how they desperately insinuated that I was a woman abuser through an inuendo just to lift them self .

so what I did was point out some observations about them ,

funny how those people always have the same trait paterns .

[unusual_suspect]

well --?????????????yeah ------------------unusual suspect ,
one minute you say I am a luv for giving this thread , next minute you
agree with dreamweazle and create a larger web ----------------(why not) ----------------by adding more men that compliment women and give them advice are women abusers .
am I glad i gave you so much time and advice with true support on your thread .
( here )
http://www.davidicke.com/forum/showthread.php?t=68829
gee thanks a bunch , nice to know how much that was apreciated and yes your right , sometimes people come on all nice then turn out to be bad .

:cool:

It's not just a man thing Tracker, I know loads of men who are lovely people.

Some people are just wolves in sheeps clothing. After that relationship I decided that if I was going to be involved with someone I would take things very slowly and really get to know someone before entering in to anything serious. It is all too easy to get blinded by the headiness of the initial excitement and attraction that we often mistake for love.

Also, I am now wary of anyone who seems to eager to impress (man or woman in any situation), if they are not comfortable enough to be themselves and impress people with who they actually are they could be hiding their own agenda - beware of Greeks bearing gifts and all that!

Edit just for the record, I don't think anyone has insinuated you are an abuser of women, I think you had a sensitive moment ;)

[tracker]

Also, I am now wary of anyone who seems to eager to impress
I can also understand that too , this thread is about women having it bad , and that baeuty lays within and isnt anything to do with wanting thanks or trying to impress women in anyway .


if they are not comfortable enough to be themselves and impress people with who they actually are they could be hiding their own agenda - beware of Greeks bearing gifts and all that!
yeah this is true , couldnt agree more , I can understand why , I too know of some real shite bags who do this and thats also why relationships go wrong , some people are too insecure and rush into love with eyes closed .


Edit just for the record, I don't think anyone has insinuated you are an abuser of women, I think you had a sensitive moment ;)

you are mistaken though , read dreamweazles thread again . otherwize , i am sure that you didnt mean to add to that because being cought in a moment can often blind us to our actions .My reaction to dream thingy wasnt anything to do with being sensative or emotional , ( ha you dont know the tracker lol ) my response showed truth in the form of indepth illestrateion through research , thats all . Emotional responses dont really get much indepth detial and are usually speradic with no form of foundation and hardly ever relate to the situation at hand as they side track onto subjects that are not related , as where my post was directly related to the abrupt and rude post made about me and my integrety , thus a given related response was applied .( meees thinks mostly )



otherwise unusual-suspect i believe you are one of the good people here which is why I have you on my friends list .

the real truth is this

would i have gotten this type of abuse and accusations if i was a woman who said that ?

:p

[zero1]

My case for this thread comes under a guise that too many people don't know how to take compliments with out feeling that some one is coming on to them. In some bad cases, some people take insults from compliments.
Many people are so repressed, so naive, and so harsh minded, that's when a man gives a compliment to a woman, every one suddenly thinks that he iether plans to sleep with her or wants her in some bad way.

Well that's bollocks!

Yah, it's happened to me numerous times; it's just social Matrix programming, really.

Man gives compliment to woman, woman's mind goes racing off into relationship/sex scenarios, and usually ends in a quick discernment of "I like that this guy wants me sexually" or "I don't like that this guy wants me sexually". No matter how wrong-headed that is, it's just their nature.

Never does it occur voluntarily to woman that man might like or appreciate women in general. It's always personal with females.

But an innocent compliment doesn't always mean a guy wants to sleep with you, girls. OK? It depends on the guy.

Most women are just basically hypno-bunnies, so easily prompted, programmed and hypnotised by anything glitzy or sexy that they hardly qualify as real human beings; more like robots, ma-chines, you know.

Alernatively, you get the odd real woman, who is a complete human being in every way. They get snapped up pretty quickly by rich men, so don't expect to meet one anytime soon (unless you move in the proper social circles).

[tracker]

Yah, it's happened to me numerous times; it's just social Matrix programming, really.

Man gives compliment to woman, woman's mind goes racing off into relationship/sex scenarios, and usually ends in a quick discernment of "I like that this guy wants me sexually" or "I don't like that this guy wants me sexually". No matter how wrong-headed that is, it's just their nature.

Never does it occur voluntarily to woman that man might like or appreciate women in general. It's always personal with females.

But an innocent compliment doesn't always mean a guy wants to sleep with you, girls. OK? It depends on the guy.

Most women are just basically hypno-bunnies, so easily prompted, programmed and hypnotised by anything glitzy or sexy that they hardly qualify as real human beings; more like robots, ma-chines, you know.

Alernatively, you get the odd real woman, who is a complete human being in every way. They get snapped up pretty quickly by rich men, so don't expect to meet one anytime soon (unless you move in the proper social circles).

lol

:D

come on barbie lets go party lol.

:D

[zero1]

lol

:D

come on barbie lets go party lol.

:D

:)

Would that all women were like Barbie...

Indeed.

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(Just not all men like Ken...pls!) :rolleyes::p

[jm22]

Well both men and women are manipulated and deceived and given the wrong impression/idea on love based on how its viewed in music, movies magazines, tv, the people around them, etc. It's just come to the point where the real feminine qualities are suppressed and looked down upon like people would look down on 'witches' back in the 1600's.

[kassondra8]

Thank you for the compliment Tracker, we do appreciate it! Haha, I really don't think "Dreamweazle" (rofl!) was saying anything personal about you though, just giving another perspective on the general topic.

"Most women are just basically hypno-bunnies, so easily prompted, programmed and hypnotised by anything glitzy or sexy that they hardly qualify as real human beings; more like robots, ma-chines, you know."

Yes Zero1, I so agree....I have always had a hard time finding female friends, so many women just seem to suck at life these days...I have always prefered the company of males. The rulers of society seek to keep us divided. They are the creators of the "macho man" and "ditzy" woman. Both sexes are extremely manipulated, and we have become convinced that men and women are so different, we can barely communicate with each other anymore. It is sad. The general public is so dumbed down, so self-insecure, and our owners use this to exploit and control us. I wish everyone would wake up...(*sigh*)

"Alernatively, you get the odd real woman, who is a complete human being in every way. They get snapped up pretty quickly by rich men, so don't expect to meet one anytime soon (unless you move in the proper social circles)."

Any "real" woman should be intelligent enough to avoid rich men and the "proper social circles." Those people, in my opinion, are damnwell clueless, and I avoid them. Anyone who puts such a value on money or social status has truly lost the point.

[tracker]

Thank you for the compliment Tracker, we do appreciate it! Haha, I really don't think "Dreamweazle" (rofl!) was saying anything personal about you though, just giving another perspective on the general topic.

"Most women are just basically hypno-bunnies, so easily prompted, programmed and hypnotised by anything glitzy or sexy that they hardly qualify as real human beings; more like robots, ma-chines, you know."

Yes Zero1, I so agree....I have always had a hard time finding female friends, so many women just seem to suck at life these days...I have always prefered the company of males. The rulers of society seek to keep us divided. They are the creators of the "macho man" and "ditzy" woman. Both sexes are extremely manipulated, and we have become convinced that men and women are so different, we can barely communicate with each other anymore. It is sad. The general public is so dumbed down, so self-insecure, and our owners use this to exploit and control us. I wish everyone would wake up...(*sigh*)

"Alernatively, you get the odd real woman, who is a complete human being in every way. They get snapped up pretty quickly by rich men, so don't expect to meet one anytime soon (unless you move in the proper social circles)."

Any "real" woman should be intelligent enough to avoid rich men and the "proper social circles." Those people, in my opinion, are damnwell clueless, and I avoid them. Anyone who puts such a value on money or social status has truly lost the point.

yep fully agree with you there .

real women ---------
dont need money

but i have something else to add to that ( if i may )

real women

dont entertain arguments
usually know how to work their woman stuff to stop them anyway .
dont want or need money to feel good .
dont fall for mens chat up lines
know how to calm things down
are not impressed by show offs
and also know-----------that simple compliments are just that -- and nothing more .

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yeah compliments are fine , however i think my thread was miss leading

i should have called it ------------women --know the truth .

because it seems that my thread is based more on truth than what it is onto compliments .

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