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roxanna222
12-07-2007, 06:40 AM
In my case alot of it is negative. However I dont feel so bad. I feel that I cannot un-awaken so if the actitudes of my family and friends to my truth are negative what to do? I cant undo my awareness or seemingly awareness (for Iam no position yet to realize the all knowing which I know we all have). So yes its hurt but at the same time Im not devastated by this. I will elaborate more but wish to know how the rest of you feel and deal with this awareness we all seem to share. Your stories please. Bless
11kushna11
12-07-2007, 10:27 AM
My family think I'm a drug-addled fantasist and I had to break up with my long-term girlfriend because she just wasn't interested in any of this. I didn't want her to be miserable, and it's better that she lives in peaceful ignorance: it works for her, as it does for many. My friends are still my friends though, and always will be. Not everybody will wake up and not everybody should. Recognising that they can function better without this stuff is to accept that they're on a different wavelength entirely and can't be poked into appreciating how you feel now.
When you 'awaken' there will inevitably be a filtering process of certain elements of your life that are no longer relevant to you. It's hard at first seeing old friends and relationships disapear but ultimately you make better ones, and realise that any friendship is, or was, useful for a reason.
Family is harder... I've struggled with that one too. Best way is just to not discuss it unless they are open-minded enough to listen.
stickylolly
12-07-2007, 10:43 AM
My quest for the truth ends here ... I have looked everywhere on my life journey to feel the peace the truth gives you.
I have found so many unanswered questions, that finding the answer to all of them was something i never believed I could do.
Now that ALL my questions are answered by the incredible work David has done I feel a peace and i thought i would never feel ...
GO ON DAVID !!! and thank you !
lightbeing
12-07-2007, 10:44 AM
Put it like this, I have 2 lives, one in the Matrix and one seeing how far the rabbit hole goes................
lightbeing
12-07-2007, 10:51 AM
My quest for the truth ends here ... I have looked everywhere on my life journey to feel the peace the truth gives you.
I have found so many unanswered questions, that finding the answer to all of them was something i never believed I could do.
Now that ALL my questions are answered by the incredible work David has done I feel a peace and i thought i would never feel ...
GO ON DAVID !!! and thank you !
That is great, there is hope.......
peter19
12-07-2007, 12:19 PM
i dont even think iv woken up truelly yet. sometimes i feel anxiety/fear over really nothing. also i feel dissasociated sometimes, and like that if i open up to people about my true beliefs alot will judge me and rip them to pieces.
i think i am still clinging to illusions abit myself like. oh well. :)
lightbeing
12-07-2007, 01:08 PM
In my case alot of it is negative. However I dont feel so bad. I feel that I cannot un-awaken so if the actitudes of my family and friends to my truth are negative what to do? I cant undo my awareness or seemingly awareness (for Iam no position yet to realize the all knowing which I know we all have). So yes its hurt but at the same time Im not devastated by this. I will elaborate more but wish to know how the rest of you feel and deal with this awareness we all seem to share. Your stories please. Bless
Hi roxanna,
I am very much like you, in the same position.
I have to live a double life essentially, can't see a way out of it, but I can deal with it. As we all know, at times it can be very tough though.:(
stikmata
12-07-2007, 01:27 PM
#1. "Awakening" is bullshit... and if you think you're more enlightened than the average joe, it just means you have more time to confuse yourself than your neighbor. Unlearning is probably the key
#2. time is your friend... i gained tons of credibility within my social circle after 911 because i had been talkin maad shit about the government YEARS prior to that event (partially in thanks to Icke and his research)... so plant seeds of doubt instead of trying to force watermelons down people's throat.
#3. *shrug*
Yes, I feel as if I have 2 lives - one that is subservient to family & a couple of friends, the other where I feel more 'alive' than they are now. Family wont listen, so I don't bother any more - except when they bring up issues as seen on the news, etc, then I have my say, but I only go as far as their ability to understand. Pushing it is a mistake - gets you knowhere.
Everyone will wake up in their own time; that's a given, so dont' be despondent.
Ghandi once said something like; " be the change you want to see in the world". So I try to live my truth, though its hard at the moment to stay in that truth 24/7. Because I'm still in the process of integrating everything,there are periods when I'm all over the place, & don't make sense to:o myself, so yes,family will look at me as if I've flipped....:o
Look around your area & see if there are any 'groups' you can join, such as a 'meditation' or debating group, or create one yourself. People are lonely & desperately want to talk about stuff thats happening in their lives,away from their censoring families & these gatherings are greate excuses to do this.
Forums like this are great, too, but nothing beats a good face-to-face pow-pow IMOP..........:D
dark86
12-07-2007, 02:46 PM
its tough. sometimes when with friends and they talk excitedly about something material or government/media driven i do think "what am i doing listening to this shit".
so yes, a certain level of dis-association ensues. but hey, earth needs the red cells as well as the white cells (read "handbook of the navigator").
lightbeing
12-07-2007, 03:12 PM
Yes, I feel as if I have 2 lives - one that is subservient to family & a couple of friends, the other where I feel more 'alive' than they are now. Family wont listen, so I don't bother any more - except when they bring up issues as seen on the news, etc, then I have my say, but I only go as far as their ability to understand. Pushing it is a mistake - gets you knowhere.
Everyone will wake up in their own time; that's a given, so dont' be despondent.
Ghandi once said something like; " be the change you want to see in the world". So I try to live my truth, though its hard at the moment to stay in that truth 24/7. Because I'm still in the process of integrating everything,there are periods when I'm all over the place, & don't make sense to:o myself, so yes,family will look at me as if I've flipped....:o
Look around your area & see if there are any 'groups' you can join, such as a 'meditation' or debating group, or create one yourself. People are lonely & desperately want to talk about stuff thats happening in their lives,away from their censoring families & these gatherings are greate excuses to do this.
Forums like this are great, too, but nothing beats a good face-to-face pow-pow IMOP..........:D
I agree, you can't beat a face to face meet.
But if I join a group or something like that, I will get 'where are you going, what you talking about, hope it's nothing wierd' I can't win!:rolleyes:
I'm banking on the 100th monkey syndrome kicking in.............:)