Thought-form experience - success or coincidence?

[aznality]

I tried conjuring a thought-form over last weekend, my very first time at it that is. Just like to share with you people my experience. Wouldn't mind hearing your thoughts on this issue too.

So I was attending my friend's birthday outing last weekend, when one of my closer friends, Jennifer, rang me up and let me know she couldn't attend. She briefly mentioned that her father grounded her.

Later on, Jennifer rang me again telling me she had been physically abused by her father. She sounded pretty distraught over the phone. I was very worried, especially how she wanted to run away from home. What happened was her father was desperately trying to cut off her connections from friends and said she had to focus on academic life, when she demanded to her father she was now 18 and should have more freedom, but her father told her she is still a child in his eyes and had every right to tell her what to do.

I kept pondering her issue endlessly that night, and the idea of thought-forms came up. I remember some of you forum members mentioned you had experience in this art. I thought, why not give it a try? I practice regular meditation so I have the basis of mind techniques.

Later at home, I sat there meditating. I created an image of an entity. He resembled one of her favourite singers. I focused on the entity to send my love to her, and her father. Yes, I was pissed off at her father at first, but I realised that isn't gonna help. Sending hatred or trying to inflict harm will end in a negative result. It's like warring to create peace, which is total bullcrap right? So I focused on sending love her father's way too. He obviously deprived love, so that was what he needed. I pretty much gave him msgs to love her daughter more, treat her with respect, give her the freedom she deserves, etc. I must have meditated for over an hour. I think what made my motivation strong was my love for her as a friend.

Well, a couple of days later I spoke to Jennifer again. She told me she is great with her father again and he even gave her a kiss on the cheek afterwards making up. Also, he had always been against her having too much social life, but this weekend he allowed two of her friends to sleep over. I thought the change was unbelievable, but it was EXACTLY what I had hoped for. It was like her father's anger magically disappeared. I was ecstatic for her.

Honestly, coincidence or not, I dunno what to believe. But I do NOT claim to credit father's transformation on myself. I am just saying, what I wished for did really come true to my surprise.

Any thoughts from people who practice thought-forms, or anyone with any comments is appreciated.

[garth]

Gidday Aznality, good on ya:) Thought forms are a very potent medium to use for good, they are very effective and I have had similar experiences/success with them.

[neutron flux]

Well, it seems that the father was just looking out for his daughter like any father would and this "physical abuse" seems rather vague and could be embellished somewhat by your friend in order to suck you into the pity/poor me drama.

So I focused on sending love her father's way too. He obviously deprived love, so that was what he needed.

I'm not sure you (or anybody for that matter) should be judging what someone does or does not need and in some cases sending "love and light" to people who don't ask or want it can also have a negative effect - to some you might as well send them buckets of vomit because that's how they'll react to it.

I'm sure you had the best of intentions but be careful in this area as it can rebound in ways you might not have fathomed yet- in this case it seems it all ended on a high note, but I'm not sure that this father was a tyrant in the first place.(But if he was a "petty tyrant" as castaneda would put it then it can be beneficial to the growth of another and by doing this thought form stuff in order to change another - you can interfere with life lessons).

Just my 2 pence worth. :)

[lightbeing]

Good one aznality, I will have to try this, sounds effective:)

[aznality]

Well, it seems that the father was just looking out for his daughter like any father would and this "physical abuse" seems rather vague and could be embellished somewhat by your friend in order to suck you into the pity/poor me drama.

What I didn't include was that he threw a bottle at her as well, and a few other things I won't go too much in detail. But I thought her case was pretty serious.

I'm not sure you (or anybody for that matter) should be judging what someone does or does not need and in some cases sending "love and light" to people who don't ask or want it can also have a negative effect - to some you might as well send them buckets of vomit because that's how they'll react to it.
Well I thought, love is always the solution. I know he has freewill too and all. However she needed it really badly from her father. Hrmmm, I wouldn't say I was forcing love into him though. Lol. I tried sending him the vibes, but it is up to him if he wanted to use it to be a better person.

I'm sure you had the best of intentions but be careful in this area as it can rebound in ways you might not have fathomed yet- in this case it seems it all ended on a high note, but I'm not sure that this father was a tyrant in the first place.(But if he was a "petty tyrant" as castaneda would put it then it can be beneficial to the growth of another and by doing this thought form stuff in order to change another - you can interfere with life lessons).
Yeah, I totally understand what you mean. That's why I am still questioning myself if what I did really made a difference. I knew her father was the authoritative type who always controlled what she did, but I never knew he was capable of physical violence, probably because she would never tell me about it. But then again, do they normally make up that quick and smoothly? I don't know.

Thanks so much for your opinions. :cool: