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fayette
30-09-2008, 07:18 AM
i was on a another message board and people bully people. follow there thread and post anything inflammatory against them to piss them off. then that one bully will get "Follower" sheep to gang up on me. WTF. i have no idea what attracts that to me but its always been like this. :( i guess because i react easily i need to stop doing that. i just really hate this mentality.
notthisshitagain
30-09-2008, 07:44 AM
Try to fix it? Or try to analyze what exactly causes that kind of reaction?
fayette
30-09-2008, 07:51 AM
no these people are sheep in the worst kind. if you don't agree with them you are a troll they are very small minded. i remember saying i have high iq and then i got attacked by like 10 people and ever since then anything that i post that has to do with politics or intellectual i get attacked by the same members who saw my original post its like they stalk me and follow ever post i make to find the perfect time to attack me to put me down its very sad. and theres a follow up message board that people can go there and talk smack about people. its pretty horrible where humanity is going :(. people are so cruel.
tracker
30-09-2008, 08:04 AM
Try to fix it? Or try to analyze what exactly causes that kind of reaction?
that doesnt always work.
at one time i was a member of UK chatter box forum .
some sheeple ( and there is such a thing ) will follow you about . they are not interested in your tread subjects , they openly admit it , yet do everything they can to follow you about and act like disinfo agents .
if you have read the
Rules of being a disinfo agent thread
you will know how they act .
some of them , very clever at it indeed .
sometimes , if their tactics fail , they insult you , they get all personall an very bad on insinuating all sorts of things .
i have noticed that some times , they will even wait until you go off line , so that they make a long drawn out slating statement , so that , whilst you are gone , when ever some one else goes to your thread , the last thing they see is the last post . and it can be quite disheartening sometimes .
ha ? fix it ? what the hell for ? i have noticed that even trying to fix it gives them more power . your just best off not bothering and leaving the forum .
at one time, a couple of us desided to do the same thing with out the harsh insults . and just because we disagreed wih their thread , our posts were removed by mods and admin .
one day me and another conspiracy investigator came together to prove that the mods and admin were picking favourates and were not doing their job properly andwere going out of their way to ignore bullying on those who made good debate threads . and and guess what ? they wiped our thread .
they even then denied it on another thread when we mentioned it , so because i was clever enough to save the whole thread on my computer , i then proved it , and they threatned to bann me .
they insinuated i had personal issues nd was a sour person . dont forget , this was a couple of mods ???????????:eek:
so i say to this tread creator
fuckem !
forget them
move on
leave them to it
you'll find a better crew here ! :D
netta
30-09-2008, 08:08 AM
no these people are sheep in the worst kind. if you don't agree with them you are a troll they are very small minded. i remember saying i have high iq and then i got attacked by like 10 people and ever since then anything that i post that has to do with politics or intellectual i get attacked by the same members who saw my original post its like they stalk me and follow ever post i make to find the perfect time to attack me to put me down its very sad. and theres a follow up message board that people can go there and talk smack about people. its pretty horrible where humanity is going :(. people are so cruel.
Ok, I know that people can make you feel irritated easy, but you need to try and remember that everybody has their purpose even if you feel like they are complete idiots. People these days tend to have strong ego problems because our current realities are built to be superficial. So when you say something like you have a high I.Q. people will automatically assume that you think you are better than them.
It doesn't matter though. If people have that kind of reaction, don't let it get to you. It's all about how you feel about yourself. If you start to truly love yourself then you will find that other people's negative reactions will matter less and less. I'm not saying to get a big ego or anything like that, because that is what we are trying to stay away from. Just accept yourself and then nothing that they say should matter. However, sometimes other people do have something to say that can help you so don't totally tune out.
My only suggestion is to just watch how you word things. Or, if you are bent on saying something a certain way, be prepared for a negative reaction. For every person who doesn't mind what you are saying or agrees with you, there will be a person who does not agree with you. It's a part of life. We are not meant to be the same and no matter how bad the world gets, just remember that when the shit hits that fans people will wake up.
realitycheck
30-09-2008, 08:17 AM
i was on a another message board and people bully people. follow there thread and post anything inflammatory against them to piss them off. then that one bully will get "Follower" sheep to gang up on me. WTF. i have no idea what attracts that to me but its always been like this. :( i guess because i react easily i need to stop doing that. i just really hate this mentality.
I also hate this. These people are weak, and need to be surrounded by other people to feel strong. And on here (the net) its even easier for them to do it. Morons, fooking morons.
anthony65
30-09-2008, 08:22 AM
i was on a another message board and people bully people. follow there thread and post anything inflammatory against them to piss them off. then that one bully will get "Follower" sheep to gang up on me. WTF. i have no idea what attracts that to me but its always been like this. :( i guess because i react easily i need to stop doing that. i just really hate this mentality.
Hi Fayette,
These people are following their own free will. Respect that and let them work things out for themselves. You tried and that's enough.
Hating or getting frustrated at those who've chosen a different path is only going to bring you down. The best way to help other people is to stay true to your path and to respect their's. Those with eyes to see and ears to hear will be inspired by you.
Basically we all have a choice: Higher level love: Service to Others or Lower level love Service to Self...
fayette
30-09-2008, 08:42 AM
I also hate this. These people are weak, and need to be surrounded by other people to feel strong. And on here (the net) its even easier for them to do it. Morons, fooking morons.
hehe i like the edit :)
netta
30-09-2008, 08:42 AM
Hi Fayette,
These people are following their own free will. Respect that and let them work things out for themselves. You tried and that's enough.
Hating or getting frustrated at those who've chosen a different path is only going to bring you down. The best way to help other people is to stay true to your path and to respect their's. Those with eyes to see and ears to hear will be inspired by you.
Basically we all have a choice: Higher level love: Service to Others or Lower level love Service to Self...
That was really nicely said. Although I don't believe that it is your job just to worry about others. I think that it is important to help yourself too. I think that you need to achieve balance.
limelady
30-09-2008, 08:45 AM
Hi Fayette,
These people are following their own free will. Respect that and let them work things out for themselves. You tried and that's enough.
Hating or getting frustrated at those who've chosen a different path is only going to bring you down. The best way to help other people is to stay true to your path and to respect their's. Those with eyes to see and ears to hear will be inspired by you.
Basically we all have a choice: Higher level love: Service to Others or Lower level love Service to Self...
Absolutely agree. :)
realitycheck
30-09-2008, 08:51 AM
Just to add that i think the internet is the last place to be if you feel sensitive to peoples responses.
Whoever gave people the free will to say what they wanted with no comeback needs to be shot in my opinion! Every comment should leave a signature - name and address in my opinion. That way you are totally responsible for what you say, and totally accountable - just like the offline world. Maybe then people would actually think about what they said.
anthony65
30-09-2008, 08:54 AM
Thanks Netta, Limelady...
Just to clarify, under "Service to Others" I don't mean that we shouldn't take care of number one...
"Love others as you love yourself" is one of the phrases that has been going through my mind a lot recently. How can you love others unless you love yourself? That's one of the big problems with churchianity. People are told that they are worthless sinners and expected to "sacrifice" thenmselves for others.
I'm not truly helping others if I don't take care of my own needs, but I do try to take care of my needs in a way that does no harm to others....
** I need a coffee! ;) I hope I got the message across!
limelady
30-09-2008, 09:08 AM
Thanks Netta, Limelady...
Just to clarify, under "Service to Others" I don't mean that we shouldn't take care of number one...
"Love others as you love yourself" is one of the phrases that has been going through my mind a lot recently. How can you love others unless you love yourself? That's one of the big problems with churchianity. People are told that they are worthless sinners and expected to "sacrifice" thenmselves for others.
I'm not truly helping others if I don't take care of my own needs, but I do try to take care of my needs in a way that does no harm to others....
** I need a coffee! ;) I hope I got the message across!
Perfectly, and once again I agree wholeheartedly. :)
danster82
30-09-2008, 11:42 AM
Well its all ego but you need to question why you said you had a high IQ, what was the meaning of it? how did it help others to know that and so on..
Basically look for the beam in your own eye look for the subtlety's of your own ego
turquoisefire777
30-09-2008, 12:02 PM
i was on a another message board and people bully people. follow there thread and post anything inflammatory against them to piss them off. then that one bully will get "Follower" sheep to gang up on me. WTF. i have no idea what attracts that to me but its always been like this. :( i guess because i react easily i need to stop doing that. i just really hate this mentality.
sounds like that forum is full of this:
http://www.forumspile.com/Care-People_(chairs).jpg
lol, i know exactly what you mean, tho. i've had to put up with that very recently on another forum too.
but try not to let them get you down, sometimes you might get a breaktrough or two. and that's all that's needed...you reaching someone that might otherwise not have been reached! (even if you don't know who they are!)
tusme
30-09-2008, 12:04 PM
i was on a another message board and people bully people. follow there thread and post anything inflammatory against them to piss them off. then that one bully will get "Follower" sheep to gang up on me. WTF. i have no idea what attracts that to me but its always been like this. :( i guess because i react easily i need to stop doing that. i just really hate this mentality.
Hi Fayette,
Concentrate and focus on your purpose...ignore the detractors!
Good Luck!
Cheers
and justice for all
30-09-2008, 01:49 PM
i was on a another message board and people bully people. follow there thread and post anything inflammatory against them to piss them off. then that one bully will get "Follower" sheep to gang up on me. WTF. i have no idea what attracts that to me but its always been like this. :( i guess because i react easily i need to stop doing that. i just really hate this mentality.
I’m guessing you’re trying to wake peeps up over there, right?
No point in getting all frustrated about negative comments coming from closed minds. Ignore! Ignore! Ignore! That’s your strategy. And continue to roll on the facts.
When you see someone that asks you a genuine question or shows real interest, acknowledge them. Those are the ones that you’re looking for.
The rest are just zombies, that like being zombies.
Ignore!
(Did I mention that already?) ;)
netta
30-09-2008, 06:31 PM
Thanks Netta, Limelady...
Just to clarify, under "Service to Others" I don't mean that we shouldn't take care of number one...
"Love others as you love yourself" is one of the phrases that has been going through my mind a lot recently. How can you love others unless you love yourself? That's one of the big problems with churchianity. People are told that they are worthless sinners and expected to "sacrifice" thenmselves for others.
I'm not truly helping others if I don't take care of my own needs, but I do try to take care of my needs in a way that does no harm to others....
** I need a coffee! ;) I hope I got the message across!
Yeah that is what I meant to say. We are pretty much on the same page then. So if that's true then the illuminati (or whatever you want to call them) must really hate themselves.
jahzel
30-09-2008, 06:35 PM
Just pretend you're a Bush supporter. If that doesn't work, say you agree with manmade global warming. IF it doesnt work still - say you don't really support Bush or manmade global warming because unlike the rest of those forum ninnies, you actually have a brain and are not afraid to use it!
notthisshitagain
30-09-2008, 08:35 PM
I’m guessing you’re trying to wake peeps up over there, right?
No point in getting all frustrated about negative comments coming from closed minds. Ignore! Ignore! Ignore! That’s your strategy. And continue to roll on the facts.
When you see someone that asks you a genuine question or shows real interest, acknowledge them. Those are the ones that you’re looking for.
The rest are just zombies, that like being zombies.
Ignore!
(Did I mention that already?) ;)
I pretty much agree with what And Justice for All said here; and I'm really sorry for what happened to you, fayette. Once something like that happened to me, and it felt.. weird, to say the least.
light seeker
30-09-2008, 08:58 PM
Ok, I know that people can make you feel irritated easy, but you need to try and remember that everybody has their purpose even if you feel like they are complete idiots. People these days tend to have strong ego problems because our current realities are built to be superficial. So when you say something like you have a high I.Q. people will automatically assume that you think you are better than them.
It doesn't matter though. If people have that kind of reaction, don't let it get to you. It's all about how you feel about yourself. If you start to truly love yourself then you will find that other people's negative reactions will matter less and less. I'm not saying to get a big ego or anything like that, because that is what we are trying to stay away from. Just accept yourself and then nothing that they say should matter. However, sometimes other people do have something to say that can help you so don't totally tune out.
My only suggestion is to just watch how you word things. Or, if you are bent on saying something a certain way, be prepared for a negative reaction. For every person who doesn't mind what you are saying or agrees with you, there will be a person who does not agree with you. It's a part of life. We are not meant to be the same and no matter how bad the world gets, just remember that when the shit hits that fans people will wake up.
An excellent response and very sound advice. Best of luck to you, Fayette, I hope things improve soon.
el scampio
30-09-2008, 09:03 PM
i was on a another message board and people bully people. follow there thread and post anything inflammatory against them to piss them off. then that one bully will get "Follower" sheep to gang up on me. WTF. i have no idea what attracts that to me but its always been like this. :( i guess because i react easily i need to stop doing that. i just really hate this mentality.
Can I ask which messageboard it is?