When was the last time you made love?

[homebrew1973]

Obviously that question will make many people either not reply or say something like "mind your own business!" but quite frankly I`m past caring...

For me it is over a year and two months ago so, as you can maybe imagine, it`s eating away inside and hurting me like mad :( For those in the same boat as it were will know just what that`s like, and it`s not at all nice, you have zero confidence and self-esteem.

This isn`t an attention-seeking thread but rather one on letting others know that there`s loads more people that are in the same situation and they should have our thoughts :)

[dmt head]

Ive met this wonderful woman who is now my girlfriend and everythings great, not to rub it in mate, but was coming home today and I get this text from this girl I was talking to like a year ago saying hello how are you, I proceeded to tell her I have a girlfriend and she goes thats ok all I want is sex! Im like no way, that never happened to me when I was single, its like the bloody buses.

I went nearly a year without sex as well and it did knock my confidence a bit, in my teenage years even longer! Late teens as well! :( But I wouldnt let it eat away at me, or beat myself up about it, maybe im lucky ive got friends who are just as hopeless as chatting people up as me. Id still go out and have a great time, woman can sense it when your a bit desperate for it, seems to always happen for you when you least expect it so do what we done go out and enjoy yourself, sex or no sex. Dont let it get you down man, its all about the love after all and im sure it will come for you. Good luck

[jayelowell]

the key is to show confidence!!!

[diamondgeezer]

woman can sense it when your a bit desperate for it, seems to always happen for you when you least expect it so do what we done go out and enjoy yourself, sex or no sex.

lol true that. Its almost like you're giving off a sort of psychic smell..

And a year 2 months isn't really that long Homebrew so don't worry. You'll meet someone and it'll all just click together and you'll wonder what the mither was.

[w1nstonsm1th84]

I've got quite a 'full tank', one might say... :o

[zero1]

Obviously that question will make many people either not reply or say something like "mind your own business!" but quite frankly I`m past caring...

For me it is over a year and two months ago so, as you can maybe imagine, it`s eating away inside and hurting me like mad :( For those in the same boat as it were will know just what that`s like, and it`s not at all nice, you have zero confidence and self-esteem.

This isn`t an attention-seeking thread but rather one on letting others know that there`s loads more people that are in the same situation and they should have our thoughts :)

First of, I'm celibate.

Second, the only sexual encounter of any significance in my past was a session of foreplay with a girl on the beach when I was 17, which went no further when I lost interest. I have not gone near a girl since, sexually.

Third, I couldn't care less. I don't feel bad about it at all.

[emanuel]

I've got quite a 'full tank', one might say... :o

Look at the flip side.....if you are 'at it' with one girl constantley, you will get bored (FACT) and then what do you have?

[soldier0fortune]

You mean when was the last time i made love to, rather than just fucked, a woman?

Never.

Shame. Ah well.

[zero1]

You mean when was the last time i made love to, rather than just fucked, a woman?

Never.

Shame. Ah well.

There's a difference between FUCKING and MAKING LOVE?! :eek: Ai-Ai, what have I been doing all these years?!

:o

[STARWALKER]

21 years and 2 months ago. (No joke)
And I am fine with it.

It is just a choice I made. Need the energy for other things.
:)
And waiting "for the right lady" perhaps? The jury is still
out on that one...

[nofuture]

If it frustrated you that much (I'm not saying it has) you could always hire an escort or visit a massage parlour.

I don't know why society deems it important that everyone be at it constantly or attached.

[sindakit]

last saturday with a girl i met in the club. ;)
completely free, emotionless, randy sex and although my body was saying i was enjoying it physically, and she was incredibly dirrrty, it did feel a bit 'empty'.
just not the same as it used to be with my ex that i split with 16 months ago. the difference between sex and making love, i suppose :(

[dmt head]

Making love is entirely different, totally different ball game, plus it can be even more intense than a great fuck with someone with no attatchments, in my experience its as if energys are exchanging and its on a different level plus you can have the intensity of hard fucking, if that makes sense. Plus if youve smoked dmt a few days before you can reach ridiculous heights! :D Fuck your viagra dmt can give you the boost you need, and it lasts, not in the physical sense though lol A mate of mines said a couple weeks ago if your wanting to pull and you watch porn the night before you go out it makes your chances a lot greater, never done it myself so couldnt say lol

[soldier0fortune]

last saturday with a girl i met in the club. ;)
completely free, emotionless, randy sex and although my body was saying i was enjoying it physically, and she was incredibly dirrrty, it did feel a bit 'empty'.
just not the same as it used to be with my ex that i split with 16 months ago. the difference between sex and making love, i suppose :(

Like i said, ive never been with anyone so far that i didnt want to just fuck then leave.

I suspect that'll change at some point though.

[zero1]

Yeah, fucking is when ya bang her head off the radiator and fuck up her back for three days, as well as make it so she cant walk for a week, then go wash your dick and go home.

:eek: Shocking!

Making love is...different.

I guess

I wouldn't know...but I would agree it's probably different to that, yes.

:rolleyes:

[dmt head]

[QUOTE=sindakit;463230]it did feel a bit 'empty'.
QUOTE]

Its weird that, when your desperate for sex and then you get it like that you still dont feel fulfilled, has its benefits though, as im sure homebrew would tell us, no offense

[soldier0fortune]

:eek: Shocking!



I wouldn't know...but I would agree it's probably different to that, yes.

:rolleyes:

Allright so maybe no that extreme (though im not lying about the radiator meets head and fucked up back part ;) ) but you get the picture.

[upsetbrit]

Friday night. I'm blessed that we always climax together too.

OK, too much info. I'm off to bed :eek:

[kashmirz]

Yeah, fucking is when ya bang her head off the radiator and fuck up her back for three days, as well as make it so she cant walk for a week, then go wash your dick and go home.



This is my prefered female encounter ;) minus the "go home" part, substitute that with "repeat the process" and i agree 100%

Women are art, and when one is alone with art ... one must um .. "admire it" as much as possible.

[turquoisefire777]

Obviously that question will make many people either not reply or say something like "mind your own business!" but quite frankly I`m past caring...

For me it is over a year and two months ago so, as you can maybe imagine, it`s eating away inside and hurting me like mad :( For those in the same boat as it were will know just what that`s like, and it`s not at all nice, you have zero confidence and self-esteem.

This isn`t an attention-seeking thread but rather one on letting others know that there`s loads more people that are in the same situation and they should have our thoughts :)

here's my view:

one of the most basic laws of this universe we are in is: 'You get what you give.' or 'The secret in Living is Giving...'

Love is a verb...you must truly give love...that is how you make love.

the sexual act was primarily designed by the Creator so that beings could take joy in creating, and also in giving back love to the Creator thus ending the Creator's loneliness...but Satan always seeks to either pervert love...or cut it off prematurely...thus we miss the point of love in the firts place.

recently, when i explained to a female friend that if you give love, you will recieve love...she almost slapped me...telling me in no uncertain terms how many times in her life she has been taken advantage of. of course, i didn't bore her with my life stories...of when i thought that love will come to me...but it does...we just don't pay attention...hopefully it's not too late...

if you give love (hey, or at least have a go at it!) uncondiontionally as such that it shines from your being...your will infect others with love, eventually...and eventually the "Law of Attraction" will do it's work, so then, you experience more joy and connection Hence, make two of your most imprtant values these: True Love and Trust.

and yes, as that old saying goes..."Trust in God, but saddle up your camels."

[eternal_spirit]

To my hand or to a woman?

My hand loves me :eek: Damn bet that made some of you cringe

I think you boys who don't think or need sex are really lucky, gives you much time to do and think about other things.
Sexual frustration can lead to much insanity.

[rixxmixxhell]

I haven't for 1.5 years. I had a girl friend before who never stopped wanting it and i got sick of waking up to find her doing shit to me:o

Really, i feel so down, i need it too, ,but not without companionship. So i wait, but me not find.:(

[baron von lotsov]

the key is to show confidence!!!

Confidence that you are a NWO robot?

Remember women are programmed these days; either go with it of hack the code. I know what I'd do.

[Mo0n5tar]

I make love in everything I do, I don't do very much though at the moment :)

[supertzar]

Be attractive to highly intelligent, pretty young girls who grow up in the woods without any tv. That's my secret. ;)

[jmmk]

I have been separated from my significant other for 13 years or so, and
haven't had sex with someone else since then because of various reasons
(illness,job loss,money problems,lack of confidence,not meeting the right
person). But love is first and foremost for me, sex is just the icing on the
cake. I think the powers in control want us to reproduce as much as possible
(people against abortion/birth control) so they can stage wars in their arenas.

[dondaz]

This morning! A great start to the day!:)

[red_ram]

Well, I went without for my first twenty-five years so I know how downheartening it is.

[w1nstonsm1th84]

Look at the flip side.....if you are 'at it' with one girl constantley, you will get bored (FACT) and then what do you have?

Yes, I've been there... I really have, it was great at first; but then it got a bit boring!

Then the only good part was the final push! ;) It really does depend upon how adventurous the woman is though... some women are too lazy for even the 'Missionary Position'. :-/

[phaid]

"Masturbation! The amazing availability of it!"
-- James Joyce

"Entirely a self-taught skill."
-- L. Ron Hubbard

"The good thing about masturbation is that you don't have to dress up for it."
-- Truman Capote

"When beating off is outlawed, only outlaws will beat off."
-- Harry Palms

;)

[tejas]

I was in the same boat as you, now I just dont care anymore

A state of high sexual indifference.


I quite prefer this state :)