Just curious... very off topic question

[gorgeousbutterfly]

do you think its wrong if the girl kisses the boy
on a date and not the other way around? lol or is that just gross?



:rolleyes:

[strider]

do you think its wrong if the girl kisses the boy
on a date and not the other way around? lol or is that just gross?



:rolleyes:

Sorry, have we just time travelled back to the 1800's here :confused:

[thetonic]

Sorry, have we just time travelled back to the 1800's here :confused:

:D

Kissing! EEEWWWW! COOTIES!:p

[gorgeousbutterfly]

Sorry, have we just time travelled back to the 1800's here :confused:

not really but my freinds think its wrong! lol and it depends on your culture and where you live. i would feel wrong making the first move. yes i'm brainwashed. i'm conditioned to think this. ekkkkkkk

[gorgeousbutterfly]

:D

Kissing! EEEWWWW! COOTIES!:p


DON'T MAKE FUN OF ME!!!!!!

seriously.... *hides in shame*

[strider]

not really but my freinds think its wrong! lol and it depends on your culture and where you live. i would feel wrong making the first move. yes i'm brainwashed. i'm conditioned to think this. ekkkkkkk

I wasn't insinuating that...

Maybe it is just cultural differences :rolleyes:

[gorgeousbutterfly]

I wasn't insinuating that...

Maybe it is just cultural differences :rolleyes:j


well i live in the US. but my aunt from Ukraine, taught me all these things that are stuck with me. its different then in the US.


she also told me i should never kiss on the first date. and if a guy comes over wear home clothing.

[bigus_dickus]

do you think its wrong if the girl kisses the boy
on a date and not the other way around? lol or is that just gross?

i have had many ladies kiss me first and they were not wrong at all, the way it developed :)

[auron]

do you think its wrong if the girl kisses the boy
on a date and not the other way around? lol or is that just gross?



:rolleyes:

Here's what i think....

http://img340.imageshack.us/img340/4411/kisssmoochun9.gif

[gorgeousbutterfly]

i have had many ladies kiss me first and they were not wrong at all, the way it developed :)

Ok. well i have no one to kiss :(

[strider]

j


well i live in the US. but my aunt from Ukraine, taught me all these things that are stuck with me. its different then in the US.


she also told me i should never kiss on the first date. and if a guy comes over wear home clothing.

Fair enough.. I wasn't having a dig it just made me chuckle that was all..

[bigus_dickus]

Ok. well i have no one to kiss :(

i'd love to be kissed by a gorgeous butterfly.. :)

[synergy777]

get in there bro, bigus you cassanova, or should one say adonis, you having a greek obsession lol

[synergy777]

in england you get the whole thing after a couple of hours, lol fast movers here.

[thetonic]

in england you get the whole thing after a couple of hours, lol fast movers here.

:D

I dont want a piece.. I want the whole damn thing! - Bob Barker (happy gilmore)

[gorgeousbutterfly]

in england you get the whole thing after a couple of hours, lol fast movers here.


realllllllllllllllllllllly? are you in England?

[strider]

realllllllllllllllllllllly? are you in England?

What made me laugh butterfly is I just thought of some of the girls in the U.K. I know when you asked that question..

The words tramp into a hot pie spring to mind..

[gorgeousbutterfly]

Actually in Ukraine (where i was born) people are REALLY EASY. but the one with real morals are very strict. (like my aunt)

[gorgeousbutterfly]

What made me laugh butterfly is I just thought of some of the girls in the U.K. I know when you asked that question..

The words tramp into a hot pie spring to mind..

girl? and guys aren't sluts? why only the girls?

[strider]

Actually in Ukraine (where i was born) people are REALLY EASY. but the one with real morals are very strict. (like my aunt)

Same in the U.K. I guess, what with all the christians..

[synergy777]

happy gilmore, i love that film.

yes in england, its cool. although not everyone gives it up, before the chicks on here get all mad.

the thing is if they have a culture that at age 14 onwards engages in this behaviour, there is no self respect/parental control/manners. when they hit 21, or above, they are use to it.

what i am saying is sadly fact, you only have observe the media, streets, to see it. look at the demographics, divorces, affairs, teenage pregancies, abortions etc. social engineering.

people get mad, but its society, take an objective look.

[john white]

do you think its wrong if the girl kisses the boy
on a date and not the other way around? lol or is that just gross?



:rolleyes:


Works for me: all sorts of things can happen on a first date!

[joss classey]

i think the whole 'date' thing seems incredibly unnatural and kind of shitty

[auron]

i think the whole 'date' thing seems incredibly unnatural and kind of shitty
Lol. :D

[bigus_dickus]

i think the whole 'date' thing seems incredibly unnatural and kind of shitty

it's not initially, it becomes a 'date' after the kissing :D

[gorgeousbutterfly]

i think the whole 'date' thing seems incredibly unnatural and kind of shitty

so what else do you advise we do to get to know one another?

[lydia78]

so what else do you advise we do to get to know one another?

Be friends first? :)

[anoninnyc]

ah, thankfully i am an old married lady and don't have to think of such things.

[lilly555]

Most girls around here don't go in for the first kiss. They make it quite obvious that they want you to though.

[gorgeousbutterfly]

Be friends first? :)


no that doesn't work. you got to let them know you are interested right away . someone can snatch them away from you.

whats wrong with date or hanging out or whatever you call it.

[gorana]

do you think its wrong if the girl kisses the boy
on a date and not the other way around? lol or is that just gross?



:rolleyes:

Not at all. Who says it must be always a boy who does first step. :)

I let me be kissed :)

G.

[damagedbrainn]

Yeah, that question is a bit old-fashioned. A more modern equivalent would be: Is it rude and overly eager/aggressive if I take my penis out myself? Or should I wait for her to do it?

[gorgeousbutterfly]

Yeah, that question is a bit old-fashioned. A more modern equivalent would be: Is it rude and overly eager/aggressive if I take my penis out myself? Or should I wait for her to do it?


:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek

[clipwip]

Yeah, that question is a bit old-fashioned. A more modern equivalent would be: Is it rude and overly eager/aggressive if I take my penis out myself? Or should I wait for her to do it?

LMAO!! You might feel a little embarrassed if the former doesn't garner a positive response. ;)

But as to the kiss: I just let it happen. Usually it isn't one person kissing the other, it's both kissing each other. You should definitely let the guy know you're interested. It really hasn't been since like 8th grade that I've had to guess.

[gorgeousbutterfly]

LMAO!! You might feel a little embarrassed if the former doesn't garner a positive response. ;)

But as to the kiss: I just let it happen. Usually it isn't one person kissing the other, it's both kissing each other. You should definitely let the guy know you're interested. It really hasn't been since like 8th grade that I've had to guess.

i am very very shy so i haven't started dating until i was 20, so i'm new with this dating thing. *feels immature*

[gorana]

i am very very shy so i haven't started dating until i was 20, so i'm new with this dating thing. *feels immature*
Why immature? Just be yourself, just feel yourself.

And Immature people are people who try to enforce some stupid middle aged rules on the world.

G.

[bigus_dickus]

But as to the kiss: I just let it happen. Usually it isn't one person kissing the other, it's both kissing each other. You should definitely let the guy know you're interested. It really hasn't been since like 8th grade that I've had to guess.

in my case (several cases that is), they kinda surprised me! i wasn't expecting it at all...

i usually make the first move, but it seems they couldn't restrain themselves. maybe i have that effect on women, i don't know...

[Anders Lindman]

no that doesn't work. you got to let them know you are interested right away . someone can snatch them away from you.

whats wrong with date or hanging out or whatever you call it.

Imagine at a party a lot of women and only one man. As soon as the party starts, all the women run as fast as they can towards the man to catch him before any of the other women can snatch him away. That's a silly picture, but that is the subconscious not-so-morally strict program we are dealing with here. :eek:

[clipwip]

in my case (several cases that is), they kinda surprised me! i wasn't expecting it at all...

i usually make the first move, but it seems they couldn't restrain themselves. maybe i have that effect on women, i don't know...

Must be the "Bigus Dickus." ;)

This is true, though. I was being a little simplistic. The more drunk the more likely this scenario becomes. Bottoms up! :D

[gorgeousbutterfly]

in my case (several cases that is), they kinda surprised me! i wasn't expecting it at all...

i usually make the first move, but it seems they couldn't restrain themselves. maybe i have that effect on women, i don't know...

didn't you do the whole naked body icke picture? with the blond hair? if so then i can see why :p

or not . lol

[adimon]

Ok. well i have no one to kiss :(

Aww...I can't believe that! :)

BTW, to answer your question, I think it's a very positive thing for the girl to kiss the boy.

[intruder]

First move, second move...ahhh, what's it matter? I'm just happy to be single..."dating" gets contrived. It took me a while to get here though!! I remember the "games" of etiquette and social convention that I once played. like the insecurity that I was hiding, the lies that I was hiding....only to discover that this is not gender biased.

It's actually quite wonderful to finally get to the point where I have realized that I need no mate, the "perfect" partner etc...And if you think that you've found the "perfect" partner....well, to me, this is a paint-by-number recipe for dissappointment.

It's wonderful to get to the point where I don't care about my "insecurities" or feel the need to display my accomplishments...and just be open about who I am with whoever I may be relating.

Kiss me first, I couldn't care..

[bigus_dickus]

didn't you do the whole naked body icke picture? with the blond hair? if so then i can see why :p

or not . lol

not at all, it's like we are sitting there talking, even outside with people all around and all of a sudden *smooch* on the lips. it's not that i can explain it or anything :)

[jaanus]

Seems as if Butterfly calls for a dating forum :) And yes, you seem to be quite shy following your posts in this thread.

People in Estonia (specially men) are very straightforward compared to the Americans. You don't have to kiss an Estonian guy to let him know that the girl is interested in him. What the Estonian guy needs, is just the look in her eyes or a smile. I used to collect phone numbers from girls in bus full with people...damn...was I a Casanova :)