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bazzybazzy
11-10-2007, 02:35 PM
now is it just me or does anyone else despise birthday's?

Its my birthday tommorrow, and for about 3 years now i have dispised them! :(
i hate getting presents aswell... why?? I HAVE NO IDEA!


anyone share this feeling, or am i just a grumpy bastard? :D

spacegurl
11-10-2007, 03:21 PM
I acknowledge loved ones birthdays but I've always hated my own. I feel embarassed by them. Maybe it's because you're expected to be in the limelight, which is horrifying.

bazzybazzy
11-10-2007, 03:25 PM
I acknowledge loved ones birthdays but I've always hated my own. I feel embarassed by them. Maybe it's because you're expected to be in the limelight, which is horrifying.

yes maybe, although i don't have much problem being in the limelight.. normally. :o
I think it could be something down to not feeling i've done anything to merit such a fuss from people, know what i mean? Its really just another day! :)
or i am just a moserable codger! :D

cheesedanish
11-10-2007, 03:33 PM
My feelings - I really hate the attention! Never been one to make a big
thing out of Birthdays! Maybe I can trace a traumatic event back to
my childhood?

spacegurl
11-10-2007, 03:34 PM
To Bazzybazzy, Perhaps you might be feeling a bit guilty about an incident during one of your past birthdays, OR you didn't get what you expected? :)

cheesedanish
11-10-2007, 03:35 PM
We'll ignore you tommorrow and say a very Unhappy Birthday to you!
(from Alice in Wonderland and no not the David Icke book ha ha!)

bazzybazzy
11-10-2007, 03:39 PM
We'll ignore you tommorrow and say a very Unhappy Birthday to you!
(from Alice in Wonderland and no not the David Icke book ha ha!) Ha! cheers :D

To Bazzybazzy, Perhaps you might be feeling a bit guilty about an incident during one of your past birthdays, OR you didn't get what you expected?
hmm.. that is a possibility! can't think of any specific incident but yeh it might be!

lottie
11-10-2007, 03:40 PM
now is it just me or does anyone else despise birthday's?

Its my birthday tommorrow, and for about 3 years now i have dispised them! :(
i hate getting presents aswell... why?? I HAVE NO IDEA!


anyone share this feeling, or am i just a grumpy bastard? :D

Ive just got to the point where im starting to feel deflated on my birthda- its not like when you are a kid.....the excitement has gone and im starting to feel as though its just another day, well it is, but you know what i mean, i think birthdays xmas and the like are for kids, they are a commercial thing etc etc, i feel embarrassed recieving gifts on my birthday, i was just born on that day however many years ago- why is that significant? why do you have to congratulate me? maybe its anoher way to ground us into the the 'life is important' conditioning- congratulate yourself every year you 'survive'!! survival is positive, death and getting closer to it is negative??:confused: ......just a thought! :)

brogieman
11-10-2007, 03:49 PM
Its my birthday on saturday, i was born on friday the thirteenth , its also the day my dad died , 3 years ago on saturday.

so yeah i hate em, everyone expects you to be happy about it , but inside i feel really down about it and hate celebrating it, before i used to love em. but that day has a different meaning for me know and always will have.

cheesedanish
11-10-2007, 03:51 PM
Let's hope celebrating Birthdays is not another Illuminati ritual..:eek:

cheesedanish
11-10-2007, 03:52 PM
I don't think Morrissey likes Birthdays either......:rolleyes:

lapis
11-10-2007, 03:54 PM
bazzybazzy,

Well none-the-less.....Happy Birthday grumpy one year older Libra bastard. :D :D http://i210.photobucket.com/albums/bb48/Belliton/librasmilie.gif I jest, seriously have a really special Day.

emerald
11-10-2007, 03:55 PM
Birthdays never meant much to me. Almost every birthday of mine was doomed so to say. Family conflicts, no money and anything that can come from here. I was some bit xcited in the past about it but since a while everything of the kind is gone. Lets face it with sincerity, any reason to be happy one gets older? Any reason to be happy one gets older in a life he/she doesnt have much in common with? No. Of course Im glad if Im given a gift or smb remembers and wishes me from the heart, but its not the case. It wasnt often anyway.

eat_a_grey
11-10-2007, 03:55 PM
Party Poopers!!!

I love mine,but then again my BD is on St.Patricks day :D

Nothing like free green beer until I puke up the free corned beef and cabbage :eek: :p:rolleyes:

lightbeing
11-10-2007, 04:11 PM
Ive just got to the point where im starting to feel deflated on my birthda- its not like when you are a kid.....the excitement has gone and im starting to feel as though its just another day, well it is, but you know what i mean, i think birthdays xmas and the like are for kids, they are a commercial thing etc etc, i feel embarrassed recieving gifts on my birthday, i was just born on that day however many years ago- why is that significant? why do you have to congratulate me? maybe its anoher way to ground us into the the 'life is important' conditioning- congratulate yourself every year you 'survive'!! survival is positive, death and getting closer to it is negative??:confused: ......just a thought! :)

Isn't your birthday sometime in March Lotts?
I will send you flowers, hundreds of balloons and a lorry load of chocolate, OK?!!LOL;):D

strider
11-10-2007, 04:28 PM
Personally, I milk them for all their worth :D

lottie
11-10-2007, 04:33 PM
Isn't your birthday sometime in March Lotts?
I will send you flowers, hundreds of balloons and a lorry load of chocolate, OK?!!LOL;):D

YES- MARCH 7th, MY ADDRESS IS.... (lol)

you got me with my weakness.....flowers!!!:o:D

anytime anyone wants to send me flowers they are more than welcome!! LOL!!! :rolleyes::D (typical girl!!)

Personally, I milk them for all their worth

Lol!!! :D

lightbeing
11-10-2007, 04:36 PM
YES- MARCH 7th, MY ADDRESS IS.... (lol)

you got me with my weakness.....flowers!!!:o:D

anytime anyone wants to send me flowers they are more than welcome!! LOL!!! :rolleyes::D (typical girl!!)



Lol!!! :D

My local M&S do some lovely arrangements!;);):)

lottie
11-10-2007, 04:43 PM
My local M&S do some lovely arrangements!;);):)

Why cant anyone go to the florist anymore? :confused:
Bloody supermarket bought flowers, almost on par with 'garage flowers'!!!:rolleyes::D

LOL......the thought that counts though....:D;)

lightbeing
11-10-2007, 04:52 PM
Why cant anyone go to the florist anymore? :confused:
Bloody supermarket bought flowers, almost on par with 'garage flowers'!!!:rolleyes::D

LOL......the thought that counts though....:D;)

My car seems to always go into the M&S car park on the way home from work, for some reason!........;):D