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By SOPHIE MANSELL
SEPTEMBER 26, 2007


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GOLDEN oldies are making a comeback in the lurve stakes.

That's according to new research, which has found older men make the best partners.

Shimmery silver hair and old school chest rugs – this is where it’s at for noughties women apparently.

But what we really want to know is this - is an OAB (old aged bloke) better in bed or is he more start, stop, snore?

Well the big coathanger grin on George Clooney’s current brunette squeeze, Sarah Larson, seems to speak for itself.

She was positively radiant walking down the red carpet at the premiere of Michael Clayton in New York on Monday.

We bet the Cloonster knows a thing or two.

And we never hear CZJ complaining about Michael Douglas’s skills in the sex department either.

Then there’s regular stud-muffin Harrison Ford still going strong at 65, while Calista Flockhart is a spring chicken at 42.

Click the link below for our sexy older man slideshow.








So what is it about the more experienced man that gets us all going?

“Older men are more patient,” says sex and relationship expert Flic Everett.

“They don't have as much to prove as younger men, and are more concerned, generally speaking, with the woman's enjoyment, rather than just chasing their own orgasm.

“They see the bigger picture and are often more sensual, as they've learned it isn't just about scratching an itch, but spending time exploring all of her body.

“Older men know themselves, and so they're less arrogant.

“They normally have less testosterone than younger men, so are less competitive and moody in relationships.”

Surely there must be some downsides?

“Older guys get tired more easily,” says Flic.

“If you're a five times a night girl, he won't be able to keep up. Quality not quantity is usually their view on sex.

“Most, however, have learnt that there are plenty of other ways to give a girl a good time, and are much more practised at them than younger men


http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2001290023-2007440570,00.html

[eternal_spirit]

It takes years to get good at something. I know I know how to use it better than I did when I was younger.

[peachped]

Yes, when they've left their electric blanket on too long.

[eternal_spirit]

Yes, when they've left their electric blanket on too long.

....................

:D wooly socks and thermal vests.

[whitelightrabbit]

what a stupid article. obviously written by an old fart.

[thetonic]

Inquiring minds want to know!... SHEESH!:rolleyes:

[anoninnyc]

what a stupid article. obviously written by an old fart.

agreed

[exmicrochipmafia]

I sure know that older women are.
My wife is 16 years my senior and I can say with confidence that I'd never consider my own age bracket AGAIN. (god forbid anything happen:o)

[limelady]

Are older men hotter in bed?

What?

Who cares? :D :D:D

There are more fulfilling and rewarding aspects of life to interest me
than wondering about whether or not doing the humpy-bumpy with an
old fella is "hotter".

:cool:

[freedomnonfighter]

Ahah.

I used to have a lil crush on this girl / friend of mine.

But she liked older guys.

That went no where... ;)

[lemonique]

No.


Lem.

[notaslave]

Can't say I have noticed a difference. First time sex with anyone is generally just satisfactory - it's practice with the same person which makes perfect.

[i_am]

Well since it is a fact that men reach their sexual peak in their late teens, early twenties and women in their mid 30s to 40s, you work it out.

and furthermore.............who cares.

[oceanwave]

The Sun

says it all really

[father ted]

http://www.curbly.com/uploads/photos/0000/0001/3988/grizzled_old_man_large.jpg
"Hello ladies, fancy a shag?"


I hope it's true, that means you'd be more wanted for a root as you get older.

[snoopsnuffleopagus]

Ladies & Gentlemen, Cordial Felicitations:

Once Upon a Time, in a Verdant & Lush Valley, Far, Far Away, lived a Herd of Heifers. They were the most beautiful and well-fed Heifers one had ever seen. The Air in this Valley was 'Dewey Sweet'.

Upon a Hillside, overlooking this Lush and Verdant and Dewey Sweet Valley, filled with a Herd of the most Beautiful and Well-Fed Heifers, where two Bulls. An Old Bull and a Young Bull. The Young Bull turns to the Old Bull and exclaims: ' Yo! Pops!! I'ma gonna run down the Hill and f**k me one of them there Heifers.

Old Bull replies: You go right ahead Junior, I'm gonna walk down and f**k 'em all!

Kind Regards: Snoopsnuffleopagus

[strider]

Well since it is a fact that men reach their sexual peak in their late teens, early twenties and women in their mid 30s to 40s, you work it out.

and furthermore.............who cares.

Whoever said that men reach their sexual peak in their teens, was just admitting to his own downfalls :D

[oceanwave]

and furthermore.............who cares.

indeed..

also..a virile young male is no substitute for an older more experienced male

bit like a musician who starts out thrashing notes out till s/he is accomplished in making melodies, as it were

[orgo knight]

Oh Father Ted ! You beast, you rogue !
You do make me blush.
I am a lady you know

http://www.bbc.co.uk/comedy/littlebritain/images/digi/emily.jpg

[monique]

Define "older". I'd say they're at their best between their 30's and 40's. And even then there's plenty who suck at it.

[malvern]

it not just the man, but the act of the poeple and how they share this act, not just one has to give, all have to give and understand what each other need and want. happy sex:D

freedom for all:)

[reptilianshapeshifter]

I've always been a great F**K :D

[limelady]

I've always been a great F**K :D


Oh and don't forget incredibly modest also ;)

[eternal_spirit]

Ladies & Gentlemen, Cordial Felicitations:

Once Upon a Time, in a Verdant & Lush Valley, Far, Far Away, lived a Herd of Heifers. They were the most beautiful and well-fed Heifers one had ever seen. The Air in this Valley was 'Dewey Sweet'.

Upon a Hillside, overlooking this Lush and Verdant and Dewey Sweet Valley, filled with a Herd of the most Beautiful and Well-Fed Heifers, where two Bulls. An Old Bull and a Young Bull. The Young Bull turns to the Old Bull and exclaims: ' Yo! Pops!! I'ma gonna run down the Hill and f**k me one of them there Heifers.

Old Bull replies: You go right ahead Junior, I'm gonna walk down and f**k 'em all!

Kind Regards: Snoopsnuffleopagus

.........

A classic lmao. :D Yes well Mr Douglas 65 and Catherine Zeta what's her face and she's late 30's. I'm just jealous I wanted to marry her..... being a similar age as she. Must of been his money or she's a mind controlled type.

I've been told I'm to old for girls who are in there 20's by them.

[eternal_spirit]

Define "older". I'd say they're at their best between their 30's and 40's. And even then there's plenty who suck at it.
......

Yes I agree.

[dondaz]

what a stupid article. obviously written by an old fart.

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Well since it is a fact that men reach their sexual peak in their late teens, early twenties and women in their mid 30s to 40s, you work it out.

I've heard this put forward hundreds of times and it amazes me how people just believe the propaganda without really thinking about it. I think the fertility aspect often gets mixed up with the physical side of sex with statements such as this.

Look at the conflict here: You've got teens and twenties females told that they won't be sexually at their peak untill their mid 30s to 40s, creating barriers for younger females.

So older females are more sexually 'aware' when they reach their 30s and 40s (experience does count), but are we talking a chemical/psychologically enhanced, or both?, But their days are numbered for actually conceving a child (which has been proven wrong time and time again).

Then there's the male, late teens to reach their sexual peak:eek: and from then on we are told we're getting too old. Thus barriers for the insecure male.

When 'they' (so called offials) say males reach their peak in their late teens, they mean the quality or their sperm, not the quality of their sexual abilities (again this has been proven wrong time and again). Thus creating a false impression that once males reach their twenties their abilities to produce quality sperm gets lower. Also, some people get this peak 'quality' mixed up with peak sexual ability.

Same for females.

It's all bollocks. We are all different. I had my first baby at 32, well my missus did, and I must say I was much more sexually able at that age than when I was in my late teens, and obviously there was nothing wrong with my 'quality either. I'll be 42 next month and I have a 15 month old son. Sex is better than it ever was and obviously I still have the quality:rolleyes:

It's all pure 'sheeplethink', if you ask me:eek:

Coined a new term there too with 'sheeplethink.':D

I think there is a lot of social conditioning going on behind the scenes over stuff like this. They try to set standards to make the sheeple feel innadiquate.:eek:

Just a few thoughts:rolleyes:

[lifeofbrian]

What a load of "age-ism".

Bollocks. Oh, sorry. Cuntocks.

[sensimillia]

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I've heard this put forward hundreds of times and it amazes me how people just believe the propaganda without really thinking about it. I think the fertility aspect often gets mixed up with the physical side of sex with statements such as this.

Look at the conflict here: You've got teens and twenties females told that they won't be sexually at their peak untill their mid 30s to 40s, creating barriers for younger females.

So older females are more sexually 'aware' when they reach their 30s and 40s (experience does count), but are we talking a chemical/psychologically enhanced, or both?, But their days are numbered for actually conceving a child (which has been proven wrong time and time again).

Then there's the male, late teens to reach their sexual peak:eek: and from then on we are told we're getting too old. Thus barriers for the insecure male.

When 'they' (so called offials) say males reach their peak in their late teens, they mean the quality or their sperm, not the quality of their sexual abilities (again this has been proven wrong time and again). Thus creating a false impression that once males reach their twenties their abilities to produce quality sperm gets lower. Also, some people get this peak 'quality' mixed up with peak sexual ability.

Same for females.

It's all bollocks. We are all different. I had my first baby at 32, well my missus did, and I must say I was much more sexually able at that age than when I was in my late teens, and obviously there was nothing wrong with my 'quality either. I'll be 42 next month and I have a 15 month old son. Sex is better than it ever was and obviously I still have the quality:rolleyes:

It's all pure 'sheeplethink', if you ask me:eek:

Coined a new term there too with 'sheeplethink.':D

I think there is a lot of social conditioning going on behind the scenes over stuff like this. They try to set standards to make the sheeple feel innadiquate.:eek:

Just a few thoughts:rolleyes:

enough said.:)

[father ted]

Oh Father Ted ! You beast, you rogue !
You do make me blush.
I am a lady you know

http://www.bbc.co.uk/comedy/littlebritain/images/digi/emily.jpg


I'm sorry but you're too old for me, I'm looking for someone in her early 20's, but you do look fine I must admit, and showing some skin too.

[hagbard_celine]

It takes years to get good at something. I know I know how to use it better than I did when I was younger.

I've become very good in bed. You see I practice all the time when I'm on my own...

:eek::eek::eek: :o:o:o

Erm... forget I said that!

[hagbard_celine]

Well since it is a fact that men reach their sexual peak in their late teens, early twenties and women in their mid 30s to 40s.


This is true only in some cases. The myth that it is invariably true is spread by the Mind-control "Men's lifestyle" magazines like Front and Loaded .

People vary. They also go through periods of low and high sexuality throughout their lives. The "feu a midi" (midday fire), an attack of extreme virility in middle-aged men, is well established. It's been the subject of many comedy films like 10.

[hagbard_celine]

I sure know that older women are.
My wife is 16 years my senior and I can say with confidence that I'd never consider my own age bracket AGAIN. (god forbid anything happen:o)

I'm often attracted to older women. There are many lovely women in their 40's and 50's. I've had a series of girlfriends who were in that age group.

[hagbard_celine]

Whoever said that men reach their sexual peak in their teens, was just admitting to his own downfalls :D

Sean Connery reached his peak and has never come down! Hope I'm like that!;):cool:

[hagbard_celine]

Define "older". I'd say they're at their best between their 30's and 40's. And even then there's plenty who suck at it.


The lonely hearts ads in newspapers seem to favour men in their 40's. Men of that age group are not only more sexually experienced, but also probably more appreciative and focused in relationship terms. Thery can also be very virile if they're going through "Feu a midi". But as I said above, there are many excpetions.

[hagbard_celine]

I've always been a great F**K :D


I would ask you if you practice a lot when you're alone, but I've already made that joke.;)

[malvern]

NICE ONE dondaz:D

[dondaz]

This is true only in some cases. The myth that it is invariably true is spread by the Mind-control "Men's lifestyle" magazines like Front and Loaded .

That's the one Hagbard;)

[lifeofbrian]

What's all this, a thread full of old wankers, let it slide to page two please.

We don't want to know about men, we want to know about the truth, and the fights, and the holy grails, and the monoatomic gold, and the treasure at the end of the rainbow, and the unicorn, and the Father, and the Source (because our lives are so boring we can't wait to die) and the Paradise, and the virgins, hang on, no porn, you'd better kill me, I had a dirty thought, thinking about women, the amazons, the valkyrians, the lovely angels there to bring me green tea and walk on my back.

You sort out this confused life. I bet you can't.

[intruder]

At 42 I was dating a gorgeous 18 year old gal.....She said it was my patience, sense of humor, care, and attentiveness that REALLY drove her wild!!

[gorgeousbutterfly]

Ahah.

I used to have a lil crush on this girl / friend of mine.

But she liked older guys.

That went no where... ;)

And what makes you SO sure she doesn't like you? i hope you didn't give up just because of that.

[soglad]

I tend to fall in love WAAAAY to easily.

It's a good thing though! :p

[gorgeousbutterfly]

I tend to fall in love WAAAAY to easily.

It's a good thing though! :p

How so? other then having a good heart and/or passionate? I am the same way but even if the guy likes me alot i like them way more. i am too loving! i don't like not being loved back. :( you can't have a relationship unless its equal. and most people aren't open with love as i am.

[28th kingdom]

Older men.. suck in bed.. they have no stamina... next subject. Did I mention the flabby parts?

[synak]

How so? other then having a good heart and/or passionate? I am the same way but even if the guy likes me alot i like them way more. i am too loving! i don't like not being loved back. :( you can't have a relationship unless its equal. and most people aren't open with love as i am.

I tend to be this way as well (with women) and I know exactly how you feel. Most people aren't interested in love these days it seems.

Older men.. suck in bed.. they have no stamina... next subject. Did I mention the flabby parts?

Normally your posts don't really amuse me but...lmao

[gorgeousbutterfly]

[QUOTE=synak;140908]I tend to be this way as well (with women) and I know exactly how you feel. Most people aren't interested in love these days it seems.

I'm glad i'm not alone. i agree its not for love, although most people think that is what they seek, its not. I think if anything its cause they have self esteem issues.

[synak]

I'm glad i'm not alone. i agree its not for love, although most people think that is what they seek, its not. I think if anything its cause they have self esteem issues.

So very true, I've been running across girls like this quite often lately. In my experiences they actually seek company for fear of being alone and not love even if they say otherwise. Not all, but many IMO. For me the ones that appear to be more honest about what they want are usually taken or living in a far away location lol.

[ness1982]

Most definately!!:D

I'm 25 and married to a 43 year old, and he is by far the best i've been with ;)

I would never be with anyone my own age again.:D

[reptilianshapeshifter]

Most definately!!:D

I'm 25 and married to a 43 year old, and he is by far the best i've been with ;)

I would never be with anyone my own age again.:D

Except maybe when you are 43?

[ness1982]

LOL. Hadn't thought of that! :o:o:o:D